polyamorous relationships

[Sw****]

I'm into poly relationships. But I find it hard to find a submissive couple or a submissive leaning switch couple. Because I'm dominate leaning. There's a lot of jealousy involved with that dynamic that I've experienced. I really don't like hierarchical relationships because of that. So I'm looking for a single submissive now.

[Deleted Member]

We are interested in adding a woman to our relationship if we ALL are feeling connected. Problem is that the women tend to be into my hubby, and because I'm easy to manipulate, I start to get pushed out or play mind games with and then we have to end things and move on. It would be nice to find a woman who was trustworthy, honest, really wanted to date a couple, and could be my friend and more down the road. Are there not women like that anymore?

[Deleted Member]

Sadly still looking for that one, were poly bit also ENM it's horrible how many ppl are out there just to mess with you or manipulate you, is there no honesty left in the world?

[Ceejayuk]

For me it depends. If I am having Friend With Benefits relationship, I do not have an issues with them or me playing with others, for instance Ive had a couple of play partners who were already in relationships it really never bothered me. However If I am with someone who is single from the start and having a romantic relationship with them, not just play, then I do not want to share them, at the same time, I don't feel like I want to play with others either. Though that simply may have been down to those particular relationships/partners.

Maybe it comes from being afraid of them cheating and leaving, where as with my play partners that I have had in the past who were with others, I already knew they were in another realtionship, had accepted it from the start and kind of knew they would not be with me long term, even though a couple of those relationships actually did end up with feelings involved and lasting for a long time.

Oddly one of my longest relationships was with someone who was with someone else already, we are still good friends.

Edited December 7, 2024 by Ceejayuk

[Jo****]

I personally don't mind poly relationships they are a lot better in some ways. I'm fine with my partner having other males involved or females involved but I keep the stance that I have to be the head or primary in the relationship. It's also a great way to fulfill all my kinks because of my partner is not a slave, pet or masochist I have options for each kink however if you are in a poly relationship all partners deserve equal attention unless previously discussed and decided otherwise. I'm looking for any long term relationship including poly if I can find it there are just too many kinksters wanting one night stands or hookups and I'm just not ok with that my frivolous days are passed it's time for something serious.

[Zo****]

I don't mind being in a poly relationship. It actually makes managing kinks and other things a lot easier in some cases. The only issue is keeping up the communication so nobody feels left out or any feelings of jealousy get out of control.

[Th****]

Poly works for some.

Mono works for some.

 

I'm more of a mono-poly person. I want my own male harem. But I also don't share what is mine.

[Th****]

  On 9/15/2024 at 10:42 AM, MasterPops said:

Poly is not a relationship. It's not wrong by any means if everyone agrees on the conditions of the situation. I don't have stats to say it's never successful, but in my experience, that type of situation always ends in someone getting hurt or overall hell fire.

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Poly is a relationship. Like all relationships they take work. Without trust, set boundaries, and open communication then it will be hell. Everyone has to want to be in a poly relationship for it to work.

[ba****]

I think in poly relation you still need to maintain the trust and ensure you don't cheat or lie just like in any other relationship

[co****]

  Yesterday at 06:25 AM, TheMacabreBrat said:

Poly works for some.

Mono works for some.

 

I'm more of a mono-poly person. I want my own male harem. But I also don't share what is mine.

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I can relate to this 🙌🙏

[Wi****]

Yes. I would like/ I want to be in a poly relationship. There wouldn't be any reason to lie.

[10****]

I don’t do much poly

[Sk****]

Poly is hot as f**k!

[dr****]

Love poly! My little and I already discussed having other partners to bring in!

[pg****]

I think after 2 failed marriages where they both cheated, I’ve decided no more marrying just relationship and if they want to be in another relationship then ok they’ll do it if they want anyway why not accept it as long as they’re still with me too?

[Th****]

Polyamory exists regardless if someone "believes in" it or not. It's not for everyone and that's ok. 

It does seem that a lot of people have misunderstandings of what polyamory actually is though. Polyamory doesn't inherently mean that my partner will also be the partner of any other partners i have. It simply means multiple relationships simultaneously. Occasionally it can also mean a group of people all in a relationship together but that's not the most common form.