New to BDSM (submissive)

[SnugglepussJV]

Never in my life I thought I’d be involved in a. D/S relationship . being a control freak in’normal’ life being a sub is out of this world, however whilst I think I understand ‘sub space’ please can someone explain how he gets me to multiple orgasm by a simple touch Anywhere on my body ? They are so intense that after play I am truly drained. He explains that I am exceptional and he’s never experienced that before, he loves it as do I.  I just wish I could explain how it happens! Also any advice on how to be a perfect sub

[Deleted Member]

I believe the perfect sub is a myth. However BDSM relationships (and all, I suppose) are nourished by communication. Communicate truthfully and constructively with your Dom to make your dynamic the best it can be  

Welcome to the BDSM community and our fetish.com forum too!

[Darksideofagemin]

congrats on your new life choice. Yes communication is absolutely the key to being happy and fulfilled. How and why it happens is up to you really. Sex is a release and however it happens as long as their is trust and communication it will continue to happen. Congrats again 

[SnugglepussJV]

Thanks .. yes I’m learning I have to be honest and communicate with him as he does me .. he’s taking each experience with me one at a time and then he brings me back to ‘reality’  .. I think I’m still trying to understand how he is able to give me multiple orgasms with a single touch whether at my neck or a whisper in my ear ... is this something subs experience  ?

i know I’ve entered subspace but it’s the bits I don’t feel aware of that blow my mind .. as a newbie to this I just find him magic 

[Darksideofagemin]

I can’t tell you if it’s normal. I’ve only ever had one true sub before and I was more worried about me than her. She liked things and I didn’t provide cause I didn’t listen. But it was still fun for both and we ended it because of life pretty much. If he can do that for you he thankful cause that’s what I am looking for lmao

[SnugglepussJV]

I’m very thank ful ..

[Swr21]

I’m looking and have been for years but I seem to run into scammers

[li****]

Just got into this life style but ready and willing with the right dom

[Si****]

Total sub sissy here.

[Vi****]

I agree. Being sexually dominant my whole life, I never even considered I was capable of submission. Until an unexpected 3 mo. Encounter with the only man without telling me too there was something about him that instantly made me without a conscience thought drop to my knees and handed him all my power and will. It was literally the sexiest sex I've ever experienced. And your right. I would cum so hard that I literally passed out in the middle of riding him. He said I went limp and fell backwards. He moved my legs for me and I came to 2 hrs later and wanted more, more, more.

But unfortunately he was a narcissist douchebag so it was short lived and he had opened Pandoras Box and I was ***d to leave him 😭😠

So I joined this app hoping to meet a masculine Dom. But it seems the guys in my area are just a bunch of fuckboys trying to fake and manipulate the women on here.. 🙄 But im not the one.

I'm really worried that I'll never have another experience like that again.

I'm absolutely obsessed with wanting more. But never desperate.