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Questions To Ask A Domme At The First Meeting


qwertytothemax

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qwertytothemax
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So as the title says, what are some questions you would ask a Domme that you are meeting for the first time before deciding whether you should submit to her or continue searching?

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I don't think a first meeting necessarily needs to be so binary - but - it also carries the question of not should you submit to her, but, why should she consider you?

That being said.  Questions I would want to know.

- I'm married and potentially entering this relationship with my wife's blessing.  However, they will always come first - do you see this as any form of problem? (if 'yes', then no further conversation is needed.  It can't work)

- Do you have other subs? How many? Do you intend to seek further in the future? Where do I fit in with them?

- What are your expectations from me? General rules plus regular commitments?

- What do I do now that I would need to change?

- What do you feel are the biggest challenges would face us?

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I’d be asking question way before a first meet. Our time for one is precious. There has to be something between the two that stands out from the rest.
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I would say you have already started talking and asking questions that have lead to you saying ‘let’s meet up’ I would continue to talk until you meet and then go to the meeting without any preplanning of questions. See if you can gel face to face and relaxed. Chatting will happen naturally if it’s a good match. 

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