qu**** Posted January 21, 2020 Posted January 21, 2020 Just thought of this Sub pinata 😁, a sub is bound and suspended, then others take turns with canes, floggers, belts etc, the winner is the one who makes the sub use a safeword, and the prize, sole use of the sub for 24 hours, just a thought 🤪
ey**** Posted January 21, 2020 Posted January 21, 2020 nice in principle but one problem the aim of any form of play should very rarely be to cause the sub to safeword - there can easily become the temptation from some to deliberately strike hard/fierce/cold - I'm not necessarily the toughest physical guy, but with some toys I've got and deliberate use I could probably make many people safeword quite quickly... but, I wouldn't because it'd be dangerous. this is also why I won't engage in any form of 'last sub standing' contests - they can encourage the wrong types of play
Ar**** Posted January 21, 2020 Posted January 21, 2020 I'd also be curious what the "prize" for the sub would be if they are being deliberately taken to that point, then "given" to somebody for 24 hours... what happens when the winner wants to do something the sub doesn't want to do? Does the sub sleep only when the winner doesn't want to use them? Can the sub still refuse everything, and if they do what has the winner actually won? I suspect there is some sort of potential here and a rare few subs may be game for allowing any randomer to do as they wish for a day, but feel a lot of thought would need to be made about the practicality and implementation for a wider context.
Deleted Member Posted January 21, 2020 Posted January 21, 2020 Be careful when your fantasy or talk loud don’t attract triggers. Objectifying a sub to the point of being a meat beating for some extreme games is not really part of bdsm. And I am sure it’s be done before by the SM scene. But as eyem said it should not be done with the purpose of using the safe word . And also done by sane person. Knowing where to hit, how many times, how long, reading body reaction etc...
Deleted Member Posted January 22, 2020 Posted January 22, 2020 This is pure sadism not s/d and I don't think you would find a sub who would wish to play a game like this or even a dom who would allow this to happen.To push to a safe word deliberately is *** for me I'm afraid,it's there incase a dom misjudged how hard to push not a target.
ey**** Posted January 22, 2020 Posted January 22, 2020 that been said - I think there can be fun in the idea of a sub pinata - and potentially different games you can do with them : but just remember leaving someone suspended/restrained too long is pretty dangerous and that there's rarely situations where intentionally trying to bring someone to safeword is a good idea
qu**** Posted January 22, 2020 Author Posted January 22, 2020 I know that as soon as I posted it, unfortunately I've been unable to remove this post
Deleted Member Posted January 22, 2020 Posted January 22, 2020 17 minutes ago, quietlysure said: I know that as soon as I posted it, unfortunately I've been unable to remove this post It’s ok. I am sure a few subs would love the idea if it’s done in a safe environment. And as you said it was a thought 😊.
qu**** Posted January 22, 2020 Author Posted January 22, 2020 I've got more of a problem at the moment with American women randomly messaging saying hello slave, then get arsey when I say stop talking to yourself 🤪
Deleted Member Posted January 23, 2020 Posted January 23, 2020 7 hours ago, quietlysure said: I know that as soon as I posted it, unfortunately I've been unable to remove this post There are not many who have not posted something they regret at one time or another including me be it on here or Facebook or anything else,especially after a few beers.Not the end of the world and we live and learn 😊
ey**** Posted January 23, 2020 Posted January 23, 2020 See, I kinda felt a little bit like the fun police shooting it down - but it's getting the balance between "you know what, that actually sounds like fun" and "yeah, there's so many ways that can go wrong" I did see a guy strung up and beaten to the point of safeword and he was in no fit state to be anyone's slave beyond that. Remember, you need a good strong servant, not someone who is weak from beating
qu**** Posted January 23, 2020 Author Posted January 23, 2020 It's more annoying that you can't remove posts really.
Ar**** Posted January 23, 2020 Posted January 23, 2020 6 minutes ago, quietlysure said: It's more annoying that you can't remove posts really. I've noticed recently I've stopped being able to edit my own comments too, when I've noticed for example a word I typed correctly has autocorrected to something I didn't want but only spotted it after posting. Is editing a feature you can only do as a paid member, I wonder? 🤔
Ar**** Posted January 23, 2020 Posted January 23, 2020 Just now, Aranhis said: I've noticed recently I've stopped being able to edit my own comments too, when I've noticed for example a word I typed correctly has autocorrected to something I didn't want but only spotted it after posting. Is editing a feature you can only do as a paid member, I wonder? 🤔 Well fuck. Apparently this comment I CAN edit. I have no idea what is going on...
ey**** Posted January 23, 2020 Posted January 23, 2020 (edited) I think you get a grace period to edit posts Edit : you do - I could edit this one, but not my earlier ones Edited January 23, 2020 by eyemblacksheep
Ar**** Posted January 23, 2020 Posted January 23, 2020 17 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said: I think you get a grace period to edit posts Edit : you do - I could edit this one, but not my earlier ones The penny drops. Thank you... makes a lot of sense, I don't usually notice until later on.
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