Popular Post Mr**** Posted September 24, 2024 Popular Post Posted September 24, 2024 Do you always prefer to collar your submissive or is it not official if there’s no collar in the dynamic /relationship?
Cravings2024 Posted September 24, 2024 Posted September 24, 2024 While I don't feel the collar makes the relationship d/s, I prefer it as a constant reminder that she is owned.
ca**** Posted September 24, 2024 Posted September 24, 2024 I want to collar them in the bed room. But a nice fancy lock or infinity style necklace out side.
MasterKama23 Posted September 24, 2024 Posted September 24, 2024 Used waist chains, initial days with thread then into metal . And anklets. You can have numerous, depending on the phase of your journey. Use something like a tattoo as well to signify official and longer term commitment, if you need something other than collar.
Sp**** Posted September 24, 2024 Posted September 24, 2024 I think every sub/Dom pairing can be different, and what's right for one is almost irrelevant to another? So I suppose it depends on the dynamic, and whilst I love putting a collar on a sub, it's not something I'm completely stuck on. Hope that makes sense..
su**** Posted September 24, 2024 Posted September 24, 2024 From a submissive I want to be collared I prefer it as a symbol of ownership
Sw**** Posted September 24, 2024 Posted September 24, 2024 Personally like them but not if it doesn't fit the vibe or sub
Oralhog Posted September 24, 2024 Posted September 24, 2024 It's just symbolism. A collar means very little actually.
Oralhog Posted September 24, 2024 Posted September 24, 2024 I think a contract is much more powerful than a collar.
Deleted Member Posted September 24, 2024 Posted September 24, 2024 Personally I love them. I think it's very dependent on the dynamic/person involved
Deleted Member Posted September 24, 2024 Posted September 24, 2024 If the collar is chosen for the sub bye the dom, I look at it like a wedding ring.
Mo**** Posted September 24, 2024 Posted September 24, 2024 My sub REALLY loves for me to put her collar on. Makes her feel owned, safe, and secure. I like the way it looks on her but I don't suppose it matters that much. It even gets in the way sometimes. She likes some light choking. ;)
ba**** Posted September 24, 2024 Posted September 24, 2024 Honestly for me a collar is more intimate then a wedding ring. I won't just anyone collar me until we've been together for a significant amount of time.
Am**** Posted September 25, 2024 Posted September 25, 2024 Would like to have a submissive collared but I sometimes worry that put the *** on me to want to play a lot and always needing to dominate. Yes I’m a 94% dominant guy but sometimes I need a brake a hey I need to be and = right know relationship. Yes I get a lot of woman that say it means more then a wedding ring. I’m also not used to going out in public with a woman being collared beside me, I more worry that we be stared at. I’m also very green with all this.
Du**** Posted September 25, 2024 Posted September 25, 2024 To me, being collard is basically an engagement ring. It's not to be taken lightly.
sh**** Posted September 25, 2024 Posted September 25, 2024 As a sub, even without a dom in the mix I love my collar. Makes me feel secure.
Deleted Member Posted September 25, 2024 Posted September 25, 2024 Getting attention in public is a turn on because people know what it is. Stare all you want at what you know you secretly want. We are in a time to embrace who your are and *** no judgment.
De**** Posted September 25, 2024 Posted September 25, 2024 I consider collaring akin to marriage, so I like that I have a collar. How we, I would only want one in a dynamic that is a serious as marriage.
my**** Posted September 25, 2024 Posted September 25, 2024 A collar to me is as close to a wedding band as I’m going to get. I will only collar a girl who lives with me, and makes a life with me. Beyond that we’re committed, possibly in love, partners, but collaring to me is serious.
Ln**** Posted September 25, 2024 Posted September 25, 2024 I have never needed nor required a collar, but subs light up like crazy when they get one...so I suggest giving them one!
mi**** Posted September 25, 2024 Posted September 25, 2024 Instead of a collar I like to put mine in chastity. It's less noticeable and just between us. But for the female subs maybe a ***r style necklace with a jeweled lock as symbolism. Just a little subtle for public.
pb**** Posted September 25, 2024 Posted September 25, 2024 To me an official collar is like a wedding ring but I do have collars for play and a collar and leash for events and stuff of that nature
Yo**** Posted September 25, 2024 Posted September 25, 2024 I prefer Collars if Both parties like them. It's like A Promise Ring in My Opinion but maybe I'm just too sentimental idk lol
Am**** Posted September 25, 2024 Posted September 25, 2024 So dose this mean you should give a woman a collar if you wouldn’t give them a wedding ring? Ask as some people say their view is a high significance and not to do just out of the blue? Also I think asking your partner what it mean to them and being on the same page helps.
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