Exploring Exhibitionism as a Kink

[Th****]

I know I've always been into exhibitionism, but never before have I explored it as a kink, with a community. To all those who pride themselves as Exhibitionists, how do you live that life, connect with others, and live out your fantasies? Asking as someone who wants to explore my kinks beyond interest and enter into practice.

[Ev****]

As an Exhibitionist and a rule follower 🙈 I started attending play parties in my area, it allowed me to be as nude as I want in front of others who are consenting to seeing naked bodies. There is an event in Oakland a few times a year, it's a party for exhibitionists, you can sign up to perform anything you want, and have rooms to view and be viewed.

So there are spaces!

[Th****]

27 minutes ago, Evie952769 said:

As an Exhibitionist and a rule follower 🙈 I started attending play parties in my area, it allowed me to be as nude as I want in front of others who are consenting to seeing naked bodies. There is an event in Oakland a few times a year, it's a party for exhibitionists, you can sign up to perform anything you want, and have rooms to view and be viewed.

So there are spaces!

That's amazing, thank you for sharing! 😊

[Deleted Member]

One also in Dallas that is fun too!

[Deleted Member]

I’ve been satisfying that with online play and pic exchange. I find it a nice way to explore that side of me.

[Ti****]

I really enjoy watching women change. Consensually of course. Any woman ive gotten sexual with, if they are cool sending pics and vids back and forth, ill ask them if they are ok with the idea of sending me a video of them trying out different bras and panties like they are in a changing room and im ***king on them. A few have been really cool and sent some great videos. Its better than being an actual ***ping tom and gives me the rush of seeing something i " shouldnt be". All depends on what you like.

[Th****]

I totally relay my friend. I’ve actually just learned about it!

[Deleted Member]

although they're not suppoooosed to be sexual AFAIK i did scratch the itch of exhibitionism by going to a nude beach.

[La****]

I post on a chat site. Everyone is consenting, I can post whatever I want, sometimes ppl will tell me what to do, which is fun.

[Deleted Member]

36 minutes ago, Lainypumpkin said:

I post on a chat site. Everyone is consenting, I can post whatever I want, sometimes ppl will tell me what to do, which is fun.

That’s one of my favourite online games!

[La****]

17 minutes ago, going2graceland said:

That’s one of my favourite online games!

Definitely a good time hahaha

[Mi****]

There are some adult theatres you can attend. Basically they play porn and people can watch you touch yourself. Orgies, sex parties, nude beaches, touching yourself in the safety of your car at night. Heaps of different things you can try. I used to have ex's that would have me wear a remote controlled vibrator while we were out... VERY exhilarating

[Deleted Member]

Fetlife is a great place for exhibitionists 😊

[DJ****]

I’m starting to get interested in exhibitionism as well. Living in Portland, Oregon. There are lots of opportunities from that, from nude beaches to adult theaters to sex clubs.

[ey****]

A lot depends on the nature of your exhibitionism and personal limits around it

The main thing of course is to remember that those witnessing your exhibitionism, in any context, have to consent to it.

Some examples could include...

Posting pics/vids on an adult site (such as this one) 

Posting videos/pics onto premium sites - i.e. selling via the many site options (OF, C4S, etc etc)

some issues with the above, mind, is that you can post them but don't have control if someone downloads and distributes them.

Swing Clubs

Fetish Play Parties

etc

in those cases there's usually a reasonable expectation (and sometimes want) that people are likely to see play.   This can often be defined by the rules of the event - some confine play to different areas, one up here is doing an "anything goes" event where every space is a play space - so just by attending people will see something somewhere.

The universal rule on a lot of clubs is if the room has a closing door (especially one which is sectioned) then door open - anyone can come in, bottom half of door closed top half open - anyone can watch - or if it's a glass door/window - door open anyone can come in, curtains open anyone can watch. 

[Starving]

I can’t really go to any clubs or parties or beaches like some of the others talk about. I would love to though. I do like to go outdoors naked especially at night and sit outside and masturbate. I love to walk around naked in the house with the blinds slightly raised or open especially at night or early morning with some lights on ! I am hoping someone is watching me and getting turned on by me. I am hoping one day someone will knock at the door and want to cum in for adult play! And I love sexting and pic exchange! I think it is a kink and it drives me crazy. 

[Ha****]

I'm definitely an exhibitionist, if I didn't have to wear clothes I wouldnt.. I stopped wearing bras in 2020 because it makes me feel even more naked and I like how my nipples harden through my shirt and possibly turns ppl on. Whenever I move into a new place, I must walk around it naked to "break in" the new place

[Starving]

1 hour ago, Harmani said:

I'm definitely an exhibitionist, if I didn't have to wear clothes I wouldnt.. I stopped wearing bras in 2020 because it makes me feel even more naked and I like how my nipples harden through my shirt and possibly turns ppl on. Whenever I move into a new place, I must walk around it naked to "break in" the new place

I love your remarks. That’s so hot. I don’t wear any clothes at all unless I have to go out. I’m a man but my nipples stay hard most of the time and I see ladies looking at them when I’m out and it turns me on and I hope they are turned on also!

[Th****]

@Harmani, very well said. I've personally enjoyed having sex and masturbating in my local nature trail. I'd go off path and have fun behind some trees or in a natural ditch and just leave my mess behind.

I've also had sex in my parking garage, as people were coming and going. So much fun!

I think what got me started as a *** was when I was caught masturbating in my mom's car by a stranger who was driving by in a big truck, so they were higher up and could look down over the car door through the window. I remember the look of shock on their face, and how funny and exciting that felt.

[da****]

As I truck driver, it's a daily fantasy to look down and catch a girl masturbating

[jo****]

I want to try it out but idk how to get started