Body dysmorphia

[ha****]

Having dated one that thought they were heavy at 96 lbs and 5ft7, it was troubling to see her self destructive behavior. Hers was to the point it was unheathy when i tried to get her help

[Re****]

Your body is or it isn't for each and every person out there, for every one who doesn't want it, there will be 2 that do. Your only concern should be what pleasures you can squeeze out of it. Allow offers to be made, take more than you turn down. I assure you, you are wanted. Some poor soul will become imprinted on your body and it will be the only thing he desires, you will be his favorite porn star, and he will give you any fantasy you want just to see you enjoy it.
You can get away with alot of deficiencies and inadequacy if the sex is great.

[ke****]

All it needs is a partner who looks into your eyes and sees the beauty of your body and soul. You got to work with your partner, but at the end of the day, you have to be on your side 😇

[tr****]

Just pick something to focus on and start to build your confidence, for me my eyes, then i realized my face was kinda cute i started taking more pictures and then recording my solo play sessions. It has really help with my self confidence. If im feeling un cute ill look or watch myself and either pick something i like still or just embrace that my body is different but beautiful and lose myself in the sexually of the videos.

[Deleted Member]

I think the key is just not letting yourself get lost in your head. Internal perception of the self is a powerful thing, and society tends to teach people to use that power against themselves.

Realising that you don't need everyone, or anyone, to like your body for you to be valid, and the only opinion that means anything is your own - that is the key. And it's okay to take small steps to that, and surround yourself with people who are supportive and see you as you want to be seen, and treated how you want to be treated. Any voices that tell you otherwise can shut the fuck up.

No one is ever good enough or perfect enough because that standard doesn't really exist except in media. It's not worth it. Beautiful is what it means when you learn to be happy with yourself.

[Ms****]

Honestly, a therapist.
Nothing we say is true help, its just a personal perspective. We can share experiences, but unless one of us is a therapist, all we can do is support.

[fo****]

Loving kindness and daily invocations and infusing of Venusian energy of some sort into you

[Zo****]

I loath the sound of my voice, but as I can't change it, the only course is to move ahead and see from there. We all hate our bodies to some extent. It's how you deal with it that measures how you've grown as a person. Also, as stated before, don't get lost in your head. Talk to other people, especially friends who you trust.

[Br****]

Find someone who will kiss you everywhere