Popular Post Br**** Posted September 29 Popular Post Posted September 29 I think I’m on the wrong app. This is for people who are ONLY into BDSM, correct? Please help in anyway. Thank you
Be**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 Not necessarily. It is for kinky minded people in general it's called get for fetish or FetLife so fetishes in general not necessarily BDSM however people are largely interested in BDSM yes. I personally have still never experienced BDSM myself but I have kids of fetishes
ey**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 11 hours ago, BriannaCDJohnson said: I think I’m on the wrong app. This is for people who are ONLY into BDSM, correct? Please help in anyway. Thank you no; it's for people into fetish in general - it's a broad umbrella
bo**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 It's just people, imperfect and down with getting hardcore, and love and respect and just people. We all enjoy debauchery together, and we can develop something, not like we are almost there, growing every day
bo**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 Wherever you are, licking toes or bondage, submissive lover and fighting for you, and our rights to be free
sh**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 Honestly, at the moment, I feel this site is only for hook up or pics exchange
Mi**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 52 minutes ago, palm-harbor974082 said: This is for people into bdsm and kinks beyond bdsm. And below too my friend…
Th**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 BDSM and other fetishs. Some talk about anything on live chat. Can make friends and possibly some meets here. Never underestimate a friend and the trade off of each others fetish to accommodate each other
ph**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 It’s for community for don’t judge or bully whom want to share their own experiences ask for help sexual or not
Deleted Member Posted September 30 Posted September 30 It's a fetish website/app for people who have fetishes one of which is BDSM, but it's not exclusively BDSM.
Daddyunicorn89 Posted September 30 Posted September 30 2 hours ago, palm-harbor974082 said: This is for people into bdsm and kinks beyond bdsm. How wrong could you be!! This site is for light kinks and above, not just bdsm. Christ, if this is your thought process I'd hate to think what you are like as a Dom 🤦🏻♂️
Ba**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 It’s a kink site. Swinging falls under that umbrella. Kink is customisable so the limits are only your own imagination and, y’know… the law.
La**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 2 hours ago, shytinkerbell said: Honestly, at the moment, I feel this site is only for hook up or pics exchange LMAO true. Damn.
Be**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 3 hours ago, Berrycurious95 said: Not necessarily. It is for kinky minded people in general it's called get for fetish or FetLife so fetishes in general not necessarily BDSM however people are largely interested in BDSM yes. I personally have still never experienced BDSM myself but I have kids of fetishes OMG I meant "tons of fetishes" not kids of fetishes holy crap.... Why won't it let me edit that! I also meant "fet" not "get"
Ho**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 You do you, and use this site/app for what you want to get out of it. Be clear about what you do *and do not* want, on your profile and in your messages, and don't worry what other people are after except whether it tallies with your aims. For example I'm all about relationship way more than any specific kind of activity relationship style. It means ruling out a lot of people, sometimes after finding we click really well but simply aren't compatible for some reason. But so does anything mean ruling out incompatible people. There's such a range of possible ways of being kinky that inevitably most won't be your thing. Same for everyone, we're all in our own little minority. But on here and similar non-vanilla apps and sites, you will find people who are kink-compatible, whereas on vanilla sites that's the first hurdle, the majority assumption that it isn't a thing. Vanilla is one of the tickboxes here, I think? (without going back to the profile screen to check) - pretty sure I included it in my list. Some aren't interested if it isn't 24/7 lifestyle D/s, others want a little light bondage to enhance vanilla sex, it's a spectrum and you're somewhere on it. You're the only yardstick you need to measure up to.
Se**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 4 hours ago, Berrycurious95 said: Not necessarily. It is for kinky minded people in general it's called get for fetish or FetLife so fetishes in general not necessarily BDSM however people are largely interested in BDSM yes. I personally have still never experienced BDSM myself but I have kids of fetishes Just to clarify, this site is NOT Fetlife. That is another site entirely 😁
Ja**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 I don't think it's exclusively for BDSM but if you aren't comfortable, that's perfectly valid. In my experience so far on here, I've met people who are vanilla; those who think they are kinky but are pretty vanilla; those who identify and Dominant or submissive without any real exploration what that is aside from their fantasizes and maybe 50 shades; and those who are active participants in the kink and BDSM community. The question I would as if I was in your shoes: am I comfortable and am I interested? And figure out what you want to do once you have the answer ( and there's no wrong answer!)
Yo**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 BDSM and Fetishes...it's just sifting through people that want You but are not showing any signs of compatibility. My only advice is keep pondering things that You want and such. Whist waiting and searching. If what You want is worth it, be patient. Or dig deeper into those seeking Your attention. Not many other easy roads to Rome.
Je**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 I'm still trying to get a feel for this site as well. I hesitate to call it a conservative site, but compared to some other adult sites, this does seem to be a little bit on the vanilla side. But I don't believe that it necessarily has to have anything to do with BDS&m... There's many many fetishes out there...
NJ**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 4 hours ago, Daddyunicorn89 said: How wrong could you be!! This site is for light kinks and above, not just bdsm. Christ, if this is your thought process I'd hate to think what you are like as a Dom 🤦🏻♂️ This is highly judgmental and if you were really experienced you would understand that being a Dom isn’t just one way to do things. There’s such a thing as YKINMK, you should pay closer attention to that.
bu**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 6 hours ago, Daddyunicorn89 said: How wrong could you be!! This site is for light kinks and above, not just bdsm. Christ, if this is your thought process I'd hate to think what you are like as a Dom 🤦🏻♂️ This place is supposed to be a safe space for comments and questions. Just cuz somebody 's is asking what the purpose of the app that doesn't make them any less competent than anyone else.
Bo**** Posted September 30 Posted September 30 This site is called Fet.. that means it is just a much about all kinds of fetishes and Kinks of which BDSM is only part.. there are a lot of Kinks and fetishes that do not include BDSM.. this site covers a wide spectrum of fetishes and Kinks and bondage and sadistic and Macho and all kinds of other Kinks.. domination and submissive.. it's not just about BDSM.. this is one of the few places I found where you're actually able to talk about your kinks even some of the more strange ones and nobody judges you.. I'm seriously contemplating becoming a full paying member of this site because so far it's been a pretty good experience.
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