Bondage

[fe****]

Where is the best place to find gals who like to be tied up? It's always been a fantasy but never had the courage to bring it up

[ey****]

I think definitely an early step could be to actually learn to bring it up.  I was talking to a good friend of mine the other day who probably wouldn't describe herself as kinky but met a guy and he asked about tying her up and she was straight down for it.

But, I guess... can you actually tie people up, do you know how to do it safely?

Because you could double win by finding a local ***r rope workshop : learning together with others and, well, you're tying them up.

[Mo****]

It's surprising what people are into but don't admit, or once an idea is suggested they are open to trying. I have had conversations about kink with friends who have gone on to try stuff with their partners and enjoyed it and also those who have admitted frustration about desires that they keep hidden.

Obviously if the person you talk to about being tied up isn't keen then drop it and don't keep bringing it up.

[Al****]

It's pretty easy. 1. Talk to someone who you think is attractive like a normal person 2. Get to know them and ask about them. 3. Ask said person you have a now established relationship with if they like bondage and if they are ok with it, would like to be tied up for practice purposes or play purposes if they are into you

[sa****]

I agree with alex..

[Fl****]

Alex is a hundred percent right

[Vandalslut]

If you mean restrained in a general sense - handcuffs, etc - try the dating section here...And all of the above suggestions are most excellent.  Good luck.

[RA****]

Look for a local munch or slosh. Some areas have rope only socials and classes. Attend these. You will not only find people who want to get tied up, but people who will teach you to do it properly.