Kal_mo Posted January 28, 2020 Posted January 28, 2020 Hello every body happy to find this site and to be here, I am new sub new in the lifestyle, have had some online chats, attempts to play not finished not from my side but I have never had what I was looking for.. A connection daily talikg evolving together trying fantasy scenarios spice up our routidaily routines slowly and building a connection, it is very depressing to me that I can't even find Domme lady I can daily connect with and go from there... Am I in the right place?, what should I do?, any advice?...
Deleted Member Posted January 28, 2020 Posted January 28, 2020 Yes there are. Plenty of us and we are, luckily busy. Busy with subs busy in life. We all have one of them. What you need to do is offer something that we would be interested in. You have no pic. No real information more a comment. Hi I’m here take me. That probably won’t work. Ever but you can wait and see. Just thought I’d share some words of wisdom.
ey**** Posted January 28, 2020 Posted January 28, 2020 you're in as good as place as anywhere else. Being new can be difficult - because in your head what you're seeking might just not be realistic, whereas your naivety may attract people who wish to play on it. That said... the question is; what does the other person get out of your interactions? Daily chat? Talking fantasies? (which usually translates to stuff the 'sub' can wank off to) and this is important... what do you offer? If it's "being cool to talk to" then this is something you need to demonstrate.
gibo94 Posted January 28, 2020 Posted January 28, 2020 I think the main problem is your profile seems to have a lack of effort. All serious dommes will be looking for serious subs and will usually just pass over an account with no pic or info. A picture allows us to put a face to the name and also see if we find each other physically attractive which is obviously important. A good amount of information shows us if we have the possibility of being compatible, not much point of a domme pursuing a sub little if the domme doesn’t like that role playing. If you’re not sure what type of sub you are then just say you aren’t sure. I hope this helps and you take this on board and find the perfect domme.
Kal_mo Posted January 28, 2020 Author Posted January 28, 2020 Things is I don't feel safe posting my personal photo yet.. Plus I am new to the site here on other site I was providing info about my self contributing in chats forums and such but alot of bluffs and just plain humiliating with no respect as you are not human or too professional types that won't get interested in a newbie... I think it is just not that easy as it seems to you maybe and maybe I am totally wrong
Kal_mo Posted January 28, 2020 Author Posted January 28, 2020 (edited) 48 minutes ago, Aimil2019 said: Yes there are. Plenty of us and we are, luckily busy. Busy with subs busy in life. We all have one of them. What you need to do is offer something that we would be interested in. You have no pic. No real information more a comment. Hi I’m here take me. That probably won’t work. Ever but you can wait and see. Just thought I’d share some words of wisdom. Thank you so much Lady for your perspective and advice. Things is I don't feel safe posting my personal photo yet.. Plus I am new to the site here on other site I was providing info about my self contributing in chats forums and such but alot of bluffs and just plain humiliating with no respect as you are not human or too professional types that won't get interested in a newbie... I think it is just not that easy as it seems to you maybe and maybe I am totally wrong.:) Edited January 28, 2020 by Kal_mo
Kal_mo Posted January 28, 2020 Author Posted January 28, 2020 24 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said: you're in as good as place as anywhere else. Being new can be difficult - because in your head what you're seeking might just not be realistic, whereas your naivety may attract people who wish to play on it. That said... the question is; what does the other person get out of your interactions? Daily chat? Talking fantasies? (which usually translates to stuff the 'sub' can wank off to) and this is important... what do you offer? If it's "being cool to talk to" then this is something you need to demonstrate. Thank you very much for your advice.. I was seeking advice and that some what helped me but I have to point that I am seeking Domme or Mistress for that is cool idea or to just wank off to that I am feeling submission and had urge and natural desire to connect with Domme and what they get from it is up to them as it is up to any 2 connecting people on any kind of relation what they get from it.. I mean the basis should be to talk and understand eachother first and yes maybe I am too naive for that lifestyle it seems maybe
Kal_mo Posted January 28, 2020 Author Posted January 28, 2020 25 minutes ago, gibo94 said: I think the main problem is your profile seems to have a lack of effort. All serious dommes will be looking for serious subs and will usually just pass over an account with no pic or info. A picture allows us to put a face to the name and also see if we find each other physically attractive which is obviously important. A good amount of information shows us if we have the possibility of being compatible, not much point of a domme pursuing a sub little if the domme doesn’t like that role playing. If you’re not sure what type of sub you are then just say you aren’t sure. I hope this helps and you take this on board and find the perfect domme. Thabjs so much man for your advice. That part of the profile I get.. The other half of your comment I don't really get what you mean by it can you be more elaborate?
ey**** Posted January 28, 2020 Posted January 28, 2020 I think ultimately - there's another thread where this gets touched on. Assume that women get messaged several times per day by people with some or all of; no profile picture, no/off-putting profile, basic message, nothing that really sets one person out from the rest. You don't have to be mindblowingly amazing (I'm not) you just have to be better than the minimum. Above average.
Kal_mo Posted January 28, 2020 Author Posted January 28, 2020 1 minute ago, eyemblacksheep said: I think ultimately - there's another thread where this gets touched on. Assume that women get messaged several times per day by people with some or all of; no profile picture, no/off-putting profile, basic message, nothing that really sets one person out from the rest. You don't have to be mindblowingly amazing (I'm not) you just have to be better than the minimum. Above average. Well.. You have real solid point yes you are right but previously I had profile on other site with infos intros and all and there was no much of anyrhung either.. Maybe I am pulling wrong strings but I will try to do better I get your point.. And I would like to read this thread too hehe!!
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