So how did you get better as a Dom?

[jS****]

“…you’ll get the best answers from yourself…With a work of self-knowledge to establish your particular role” -dude wtf does any of this even mean?! And if he’s reaching out, clearly he won’t get the best answers from himself, so….what?

[mL****]

For me, most of what I've learned and what I know really came from just talking to interesting people that were into similar things as me. Of course things like stories online, toy shops or just porn can make it possible to learn about a lot more things if you can invest some time into it but ultimately you'll have to figure out what kind of dom/switch/sub you are and that'll work best with talking to similar people. And no, you don't have to be aggressive or have a dominant personality at all to be a good Dom. I for example kind of assumed for a while that because my personality doesn't match my sexuality at all, I can't be a good Dom but there's so many ways you can be sexually dominant. You'll eventually find yours, just don't try to fit into any stereotypes too much

[ci****]

My friend... It depends the sub you wanna satisfy! There's not a rule :)
Just be smart, emphatic and mind-blowing for your partner and see if it works!