Popular Post Essexblonde88 Posted November 13 Popular Post Posted November 13 Like sex parties, places where you can go to test out desires etc. im kinda shy and I’m recently separated and curious to know about this sort of thing. Just more to gain some knowledge - I have fantasies and desires but no clue how to deal with them.
UK**** Posted November 13 Posted November 13 1 hour ago, Essexblonde88 said: Like sex parties, places where you can go to test out desires etc. im kinda shy and I’m recently separated and curious to know about this sort of thing. Just more to gain some knowledge - I have fantasies and desires but no clue how to deal with them. That would depend on the types of desires you mean. Swapping, anonymous sex with strangers, that's easy, most counties have swingers clubs. If your desires are less vanilla then still possible however you really need to understand what they are and carefully match to the events
be**** Posted November 13 Posted November 13 RI this lady an her husband have a place that they run a 🤫 event
Essexblonde88 Posted November 13 Author Posted November 13 I’m curious about bondage, sub / dom, maybe threesomes - what you see and what you experience are different. So not sure if I’d enjoy it lol
Metika Posted November 13 Posted November 13 I'm exactly the same... harder than I thought finding someone with similar kinks/fetishes locally... if you're ever passing by liverpool, feel free to pop in.xx
Ra**** Posted November 13 Posted November 13 25 minutes ago, KinkyWill98 said: Message me if you want to explore fantasies and desires, I have a lot of experience helping people explore, nothing is off limits with me 😏 No limits? 🧐
UK**** Posted November 13 Posted November 13 12 minutes ago, Essexblonde88 said: I’m curious about bondage, sub / dom, maybe threesomes - what you see and what you experience are different. So not sure if I’d enjoy it lol Whilst there are bdsm clubs around the country (best found with listings on Fetlife) I would suggest those are better when you have experienced a little and have a better idea of what you want to expand on. Find a dom/me that doesn't mind someone new would be my advice. Find someone you trust to explore with.
ma**** Posted November 13 Posted November 13 Same, new to this scene so if you know of anything in or around London, let me know please
NFBasterd Posted November 13 Posted November 13 2 hours ago, Essexblonde88 said: Like sex parties, places where you can go to test out desires etc. im kinda shy and I’m recently separated and curious to know about this sort of thing. Just more to gain some knowledge - I have fantasies and desires but no clue how to deal with them. As a f & m mature couple we both together really enjoy both naughty (pants-on) adventures and more intimate hot meets with third party (in our case mostly fem or couple) pampering, chalanging, diciplining depending on how things evolve. (Sometimes very quickly or more gradually 😉) Just back from Swinger hotel that was great (contact usually started in the jacuzzi) .. Happy to go out on London / SE adventures with you Essex blonde. . . 😘
lesdevon Posted November 13 Posted November 13 2 hours ago, Essexblonde88 said: I’m curious about bondage, sub / dom, maybe threesomes - what you see and what you experience are different. So not sure if I’d enjoy it lol 3 sums are fun. But you have to be sure you want to try
CopperKnob Posted November 13 Posted November 13 It feels like many of these comments are rather gunho and have no thoughts for safety. . Tip 1: Don't make contact with anyone offering their "assistance" in this comment section, particularly if they state "no limits." They'll have no regard for your own, and you'll be at risk. . Tip 2: If you're new, go to a munch and start with no more than conversation, make friends with other like-minded people. Those people will likely also be attending other events where you can test different fetishes out, generally in a safe/fun/relaxed environment.
In**** Posted Wednesday at 07:36 PM Posted Wednesday at 07:36 PM 2 hours ago, CopperKnob said: It feels like many of these comments are rather gunho and have no thoughts for safety. . Tip 1: Don't make contact with anyone offering their "assistance" in this comment section, particularly if they state "no limits." They'll have no regard for your own, and you'll be at risk. . Tip 2: If you're new, go to a munch and start with no more than conversation, make friends with other like-minded people. Those people will likely also be attending other events where you can test different fetishes out, generally in a safe/fun/relaxed environment. This 👆🏽☝🏽
bl**** Posted Thursday at 06:47 AM Posted Thursday at 06:47 AM Fetlife is good for munches and play parties! I was looking for their app but found this one. Just google and make an account on there. Join some groups. A lot of groups vet people before inviting them to parties, and I have never felt safer than I have at a Fet party. :)
ma**** Posted Thursday at 09:41 AM Posted Thursday at 09:41 AM 2 hours ago, bluebonnet-eyes said: Fetlife is good for munches and play parties! I was looking for their app but found this one. Just google and make an account on there. Join some groups. A lot of groups vet people before inviting them to parties, and I have never felt safer than I have at a Fet party. :) How do you find munches on fetlife? I’m new to this and I thought fet life and fet app were the same thing
UK**** Posted Thursday at 10:12 AM Posted Thursday at 10:12 AM Use the search function by your town or area and then under the groups header you should see the group description saying 'munch'. Depending on where you live it's very easy. London is well served so you may find a more granular search by district will bear fruit too
ey**** Posted Thursday at 06:16 PM Posted Thursday at 06:16 PM 8 hours ago, ma_6 said: How do you find munches on fetlife? I’m new to this and I thought fet life and fet app were the same thing I honestly do not get how people confuse the two. Everything from the branding, the style, the contents etc is materially different But...anyhow on fetlife - go to their website set up a profile and you literally just click the location you've set and boom, munches, events and so on in a radius all come up
ey**** Posted Thursday at 06:19 PM Posted Thursday at 06:19 PM On 11/13/2024 at 5:35 PM, CopperKnob said: It feels like many of these comments are rather gunho and have no thoughts for safety. . Tip 1: Don't make contact with anyone offering their "assistance" in this comment section, particularly if they state "no limits." They'll have no regard for your own, and you'll be at risk. . Tip 2: If you're new, go to a munch and start with no more than conversation, make friends with other like-minded people. Those people will likely also be attending other events where you can test different fetishes out, generally in a safe/fun/relaxed environment. yep - I seconded all this I think there is a massive red flag with someone going "Hey, I'm new and nervy and don't know where to start" and then some random going "let me show you the way" because they are preying on naivety if they lived in a similar area and could recommend places - that'd be different though, as always a lot of the old "secret" events are secret for a reason and don't get broadcast. There are publicly listed events on places like fetlife or by checking out things in your local community. Sometimes, if in doubt - find a local sex shop
bl**** Posted Friday at 06:32 PM Posted Friday at 06:32 PM Yesterday at 09:41 AM, ma_6 said: How do you find munches on fetlife? I’m new to this and I thought fet life and fet app were the same thing So did I! Lmao. If you join groups on there, most of them have munches. Just type in something you’re into, or your general region of living or even your city when searching groups, and you’ll find something!
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