Mz**** Posted November 16 Posted November 16 I’ve been perplexed by this particular classification of dominant women. I don’t use the term to describe myself. Doesn’t mean that I’m not gentle . I care very much about the s/typs I engage with. it just something about it just doesn’t sit right someone explain to me really what is gentle FemDom?
dominionhub Posted November 17 Posted November 17 I have always assumed that it describes a domme that is not focused on ***/***. Not quite a caregiver, but not into *** and such.
dominionhub Posted November 17 Posted November 17 The app censored my answer for some reason. But, I was saying she is not interested in causing harm.
de**** Posted November 17 Posted November 17 You can care deeply about your submissives while still being able to engage with their masochistic tendencies. In my interpretation, a gentle femdom is a Domme that simply doesn’t have sadistic desires, and therefore doesn’t engage in forms of impact/***/***/etc with their subs. That being said, we’re all very unique in our kinky ways and labels like “gentle femdom” can only suggest what one might be into.
La**** Posted November 17 Posted November 17 Imo they’re fall into the caregiver type, but not exclusively into a mommy and age play. Gentle fdom is the affectionate, kind and caring type. They tend to be on the sweet side. They dominate you and have their way with using ‘love’ rather than only extreme aggression. It’s just mostly feels warm. But doesnt mean a gentle fdom would be only and always be a sole gentle type. For example; I see myself as a gentle fdom. But Im also a sadist (a paradox, I know). So I would be lead you on with affections then I will manhandle and use aggressions while still talking and teasing you in rather kind manner.
Su**** Posted November 17 Posted November 17 It’s having more Queen/ Mother energy than Seductress/ Sadistic energy. (Like that’s who you are as a person). Until your sub gives you a real reason to punish them. Then just kiss that gentleness goodbye, babe.
0m**** Posted November 17 Posted November 17 Ok how does this differ from a soft domme ? I had someone tell me I was a sensualist but these other terms could work as well.
Ju**** Posted November 17 Posted November 17 Not to but In my femdoms, but I'm a switch looking for my mistress but am having a hard time going about finding her. Idk where to look online, in person seems impossible as I can't just walk up to a woman saying "looking for a sub" lol there's far n few on here located where I live... I'd be more than greatful for ANY help or guidance muh ladies.
La**** Posted November 17 Posted November 17 2 hours ago, 0mG0ddess said: Ok how does this differ from a soft domme ? I had someone tell me I was a sensualist but these other terms could work as well. I see it as the same thing. Just a different term.
lobasolitaria8365 Posted November 17 Posted November 17 Yo soy gentle Femdom, mi placer es más sádico que dominar como tal
0m**** Posted November 17 Posted November 17 14 hours ago, JunkHead91 said: Not to but In my femdoms, but I'm a switch looking for my mistress but am having a hard time going about finding her. Idk where to look online, in person seems impossible as I can't just walk up to a woman saying "looking for a sub" lol there's far n few on here located where I live... I'd be more than greatful for ANY help or guidance muh ladies. You can put on vanilla dating profiles that you’re sub seeking non vanilla and see if that works. Also fetlife has groups based on location and you can find local munches and meetups.
he**** Posted November 18 Posted November 18 Siswet (google her) has a mistress that is exactly what your asking about. she shows up alot on her channel. Anything she does bondage related it's going to have said mistress in it check it out.
Ve**** Posted Sunday at 03:19 PM Posted Sunday at 03:19 PM A gentle fem dom has a dominant style that may not appear overtly dominant. Our domination is allowed, as is all domination, because of its allure. For instance, let’s say I am with my sub who is kissing me in a way I do not like. How does a fem dom handle this? Not with a ***ful strike to the cheek. Not with harsh words and a stern brow. But with a slow withdrawal of the kiss while looking deep into his eyes, placing a finger over his lips and whispering “No.” And then I kiss him the way I like to be kissed with sensual enthusiasm. And he submits and kisses me like that back. I would argue that subs who have a fem dom are the ultimate submissives because *** is not required. They willingly, lovingly, eagerly allow themselves to be gently guided without *** of punishment or unwanted ***.
Ve**** Posted Sunday at 03:27 PM Posted Sunday at 03:27 PM November 17, Summer77 said: It’s having more Queen/ Mother energy than Seductress/ Sadistic energy. (Like that’s who you are as a person). Until your sub gives you a real reason to punish them. Then just kiss that gentleness goodbye, babe. I agree with queen energy, but if someone claimed my energy as mother I would feel disgust. But thus just goes to show how much nuance is involved in labels. It highlights the importance of communication and clear expectations and limits. I would also like say that gentle gem dom can be very seductive.
Aq**** Posted 3 hours ago Posted 3 hours ago Hey so I’m new here first off 😅 I was talking to someone who wants to see my dominant side and I’m new to the BDSM and I’m open to it even though I never done it in my own life
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