Your Revelation

[Do****]

When did you realize you were submissive, and was your first time as a sub a great introduction into the world of bdsm or not ?

[Ve****]

I love this question. I had behaved as a submissive years before I understood what I was doing with my first boyfriend at 19. Fast forward to 2021: I realized I had spent years attempting to recreate that sexual dynamic with cruel men. I was a legit slave to my last husband. After I escaped I pondered that life, those choices and my submission, ultimately recognizing it as a beautiful gift most men do not understand, much less deserve or possess the ability (or desire) to cherish as it should be. Sub femmes: pay attention.

[Su****]

I first noticed that I was submissive when I took a woman to orgasm for the first time at the age of 16. The feeling that I was able to give her pleasure was indescribable. Since then I have had a lot of experience with ***, bondage, D/s dynamics, but my basic need is still to make a woman happy with my submissive nature by submitting to her…and being ***d to to that :)

[mo****]

Crazy I’ve been hiding in a dominant shell most of my life but since 6 grade I’ve always loved to please but I did it for my dominant spot there is Ntn in the world better than sucking good pu**y but wen I got older bout 7 years ago I was getting head and she stuck her finger in my hole I released so hard and I think all the dominance left my body I’ve been craving to be a submissive s3x slave for the right dominant one every since and I’m still waiting and wanting my very first experience ANYTHING GOES

[Ne****]

6 hours ago, Velicious said:

I love this question. I had behaved as a submissive years before I understood what I was doing with my first boyfriend at 19. Fast forward to 2021: I realized I had spent years attempting to recreate that sexual dynamic with cruel men. I was a legit slave to my last husband. After I escaped I pondered that life, those choices and my submission, ultimately recognizing it as a beautiful gift most men do not understand, much less deserve or possess the ability (or desire) to cherish as it should be. Sub femmes: pay attention.

PRECISELY ALL OF THAT - for so many of us & I could have authored so much of your share here. ❤️‍🩹

[Ne****]

4 hours ago, Sub_ject said:

I first noticed that I was submissive when I took a woman to orgasm for the first time at the age of 16. The feeling that I was able to give her pleasure was indescribable. Since then I have had a lot of experience with ***, bondage, D/s dynamics, but my basic need is still to make a woman happy with my submissive nature by submitting to her…and being ***d to to that :)

This is interesting to Me, in that, you believe your submission is directly? tied to your ego/ability to pleasure…? Is this correct and exclusive (realising it’s most likely more nuanced than that statement but, generally)?

[Ve****]

5 hours ago, NexumSange said:

PRECISELY ALL OF THAT - for so many of us & I could have authored so much of your share here. ❤️‍🩹

It’s so common with men Dom’s. Is it also common with femme Dom’s, I wonder. The cruelty and lack of cherish for submission.

[Ne****]

4 hours ago, Velicious said:

It’s so common with men Dom’s. Is it also common with femme Dom’s, I wonder. The cruelty and lack of cherish for submission.

I too wonder & ponder such things…

[do****]

Still trying to find someone who will take me, my very first time