Slavehound99 Posted November 27 Posted November 27 Trying to relax. It is best to „hang loose“ and not to be stressed.
ta**** Posted November 27 Posted November 27 Also, train yourself to get used to things in there, or get a Dom to *** you to be trained if you prefer
Cypresswillys Posted November 27 Posted November 27 Take your time to play with yourself withe different toys
Th**** Posted November 27 Posted November 27 Training to get your ass ready. My boys always do. Also there is lube that is for anal which will relax your asshole. That helps a lot from what I have been told by boys.
st**** Posted November 27 Posted November 27 Bresthe, relax, get her to use her fingers first clean out really well beforehand...
bz**** Posted November 27 Posted November 27 Relax... And lube. Make it a special event and take your time with it. If you drink or party do some of that first. Loosen up with some toys or hand play. Make sure she's comfortable with that and just go from there. Clean out a few hours beforehand to prevent a big mess. Just remember when playing with anal. It's your butt shit happens, don't get embarrassed. Clean up, switch roles for a little bit, relax, and keep going.
Cypresswillys Posted November 27 Posted November 27 1 hour ago, TheTemptingRedQueen said: Training to get your ass ready. My boys always do. Also there is lube that is for anal which will relax your asshole. That helps a lot from what I have been told by boys. Do NOT use numbing agents you want to feel everything for pleasure and *** *** tells you to stop
Al**** Posted November 27 Posted November 27 Have you given any thought to exploring on your own with a suction cup dildo? That way you can do more exploration at your own pace. To reiterate what others have said start small and go slow. Try to relax and breathe. And with all things, communicate, communicate, communicate with your partner. What are your partner's fantasies and do they align with yours? Perhaps your partner can watch you with the suction cup dildo so they can get an idea of what you're looking for ie s***d, depth, rhythm, etc.
Th**** Posted November 27 Posted November 27 1 hour ago, Cypresswillys said: Do NOT use numbing agents you want to feel everything for pleasure and *** *** tells you to stop It is not a numbing agent. It just helps relax your ass. It is especially made for anal.
Cypresswillys Posted November 27 Posted November 27 33 minutes ago, TheTemptingRedQueen said: It is not a numbing agent. It just helps relax your ass. It is especially made for anal. I thought it was what you meant but wanted to make it clear for others
he**** Posted November 27 Posted November 27 Training on your own time. Butt plugs are huge. Loosening very good before getting pegged. Realizing a lot of its me mental as well as ***ful. For me its not size really that uncomfortable… its the actual texture of the dildo. But biggest thing like anything else is just time and practice. It took me over a year with my Mistress to really get comfortable with any butt stuff.
do**** Posted November 27 Posted November 27 Optimise your diet and you won't have any troubles. This is controversial but if you have decent muscles, you don't even need much lube. Just a little bit of patience.
ey**** Posted November 27 Posted November 27 1) Lube 2) Start small 3) you can do anal play on your own to practice
Ma**** Posted November 27 Posted November 27 Lots of lube. Discomfort is fine, *** means stop-some5hing may have torn. Start small, then go larger. Youre stretching muscles. For the love of god, srart small and work your way up.
st**** Posted November 27 Posted November 27 Lube lube an more lube an if you think you have enough more lube
Fr**** Posted November 27 Posted November 27 Lol ...*for the love of God, start small and work your way up* never truer words spoken
Recommended Posts