Names for these 2 kinks? Some kind of invert voyeurism?

[pu****]

1. Likes to be watched but not an exhibitionist?

2. Like public sex but doesn't want to be seen nor caught?

Any labels exist for these two things?

[Si****]

Perhaps 1 would be called voyeuristic exhibitionism and 2 a private exhibitionist.
Or
1 a mannequin (because you look at them but they don't do anything)
2 a sexual superhero (because you don't often see them and can't catch them)

[Ne****]

2 is hidden public

[pu****]

23 minutes ago, SirTarsals said:

Perhaps 1 would be called voyeuristic exhibitionism and 2 a private exhibitionist.
Or
1 a mannequin (because you look at them but they don't do anything)
2 a sexual superhero (because you don't often see them and can't catch them)

I like the Mannequin label, that makes it sound pretty/fancy 👌🏽

Lol @ sexual superhero. 😂

[pu****]

5 minutes ago, Nerdydom13 said:

2 is hidden public

Thank you

[Mi****]

1 hour ago, Nerdydom13 said:

2 is hidden public

I like this one because both of those are true for me and that’s how it feels. Hidden in plain sight. Sneakily kinky. Right in the middle of everything.

[Ma****]

Exhibitionist.
The vast majority of what youve described is exhibitionism, with a few carve outs, but exhibitionism all the same.

[balsub]

2 - discrete agoraphobia

[pu****]

4 minutes ago, balsub said:

2 - discrete agoraphobia

Hahahaha

[pu****]

1 hour ago, Marshal83 said:

Exhibitionist.
The vast majority of what youve described is exhibitionism, with a few carve outs, but exhibitionism all the same.

Surprised to hear it'd fit the category. I only understand exhibitionism to mean someone wanting to expose themselves sexually, and be seen by someone specifically for the shower's sexual gratification.

Is there an expanded definition that everyone's using for it now? Is it a spectrum term now?

[mi****]

That’s exactly what I am.

[mi****]

Or I mean that’s exactly what I like or don’t mind

[Se****]

1. I like what I like but that doesn't make me an art connoisseur.
2. That's why there's workarounds. Two-way glass, very dark tinted windows in a very legal way.
There can be a solution to almost every problem with experience, but some are just more fun than others 😉

[co****]

Following!!!

[my****]

You just need a name? 1. Schrödinger’s exhibitionism. 2. Ghost sex.

[Au****]

They're still forms of exhibitionism.

[Au****]

It's like exhibitionism lite. Want the thrill of doing the thing, without the punishment/stigma of being caught.

[Mr****]

If you like to be watched, you are an exhibitionist.

Largely the entire appeal of public sex IS the risky business of it all. - think airplane bathroom, changing room, on a hike… no?

As someone who doesn’t particularly like labels I see the appeal to the pushback, but a spade’s a spade sometimes and being able to communicate that to potential partners for their buy in/consent trumps my label anarchism. end of the day I want to fuck, nice shoes.