ghoulfriend Posted Monday at 09:25 PM Posted Monday at 09:25 PM Hi! I have never posted on here before so I apologize if I am breaking any rules or anything. . My girlfriend and I are exploring bondage primarily through scarves and soft belts. I usually tie her wrists above her head, to my headboard. Her bed however does not have a headboard, so that is not on option when we are there. . My question is, what other positions can we try that don’t include tying my girlfriend TO something? We usually tie her wrists (and occasionally ankles) together. I’m thinking that I’d like to tie one of her wrists behind her back by wrapping the rope around her torso. I am just curious and would like some more ideas. We are both very explorative and would like to try new positions. WHAT WE HAVE TRIED (AND ENJOYED): • her wrists tied above her head • her wrists tied above her head to headboard • her ankles tied together WHAT WE ARE INTERESTED IN: • blindfolding her • tying an arm (or two) to her torso Once again, I’ve never posted here before, so I’m sorry if I am crossing a line or breaking a rule. Thanks all! Let me know if I should clarify anything!
bi**** Posted Tuesday at 12:19 AM Posted Tuesday at 12:19 AM No need to be apologetic, you have a sound question. Some ideas: tie wrists and ankles to the bed legs, if you don't have other anchor points. Try the traditional "hogtie": wrists tied behind back, ankles tied and both tied together behind her back. You could try plastic food wrap - round and round, arms by sides and she'll be immobilised. Tear gaps in it where needed. But ultimately what you want is shibari type ropework. In the "community" section you'll see description of this, and there may well be a rope workshop in your area where youy can learn and practice with people knowedgeable abotu the practice.
Maskedpunisher Posted Tuesday at 12:22 AM Posted Tuesday at 12:22 AM I’ve done all kinds of tying from thick tape to ropes to chains. Find out her fantasies and explore them you can tell some things based on how her body reacts when you do certain things to it. you have to do it naturally though not as an act girls tend to get off that more.
LordMacTire83 Posted Tuesday at 12:29 AM Posted Tuesday at 12:29 AM You can get under mattress "Bondage Belts" that go under the mattress or box spring and have tie points and some even have built in "Cuffs" that close with velcro or straps and buckles. Prices vary but you can find them from China for fairly cheap. You can also find, {at a decent price} stainless steel locking cuffs and collar combos that are lined with a black "Neoprene" material and can be used in water/showers and clean easily. The Neoprene acts as a rubbery "padding" for the cuffs and collars. The mini-paddel locks are usually all keyed the same and the come with chains as well. I have a full set and I HIGHLY RECOMMEND them! I hope this helps? Feel free to DM me for more ideas... I will help in any way I can. Play Safe and Be Well. LMacT
Mi**** Posted Tuesday at 12:29 AM Posted Tuesday at 12:29 AM You didn’t ask, but I have to check… when you are using scarves or other fabric, do you have safety scissors at the ready in case she needs to get free and it can’t untie her fast enough?
Mi**** Posted Tuesday at 12:32 AM Posted Tuesday at 12:32 AM Invest in some actual cuffs and connectors. You can get an under bed restraint system for not too much *** as well.
Mi**** Posted Tuesday at 12:35 AM Posted Tuesday at 12:35 AM 28 minutes ago, WaterDude said: In the water! Wetter is better! Given the beginning level nature of the question, I don’t think edge play like bondage in water is a good idea
LordMacTire83 Posted Tuesday at 12:38 AM Posted Tuesday at 12:38 AM YES! I was going to say that! Using nylon stocking or ANYTHING "Stretchy" can be VERY dangerous! The "Sub" could pull hard on the bindings and cause them to tighten more than initially tied and cut off circulation, but also became TOO tight to untie! "SAFETY/BANDAGE SCISSORS" should ALWAYS be on hand in an emergency!
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