Kink Therapy

[Ar****]

Im trying to set up a makeshift dungeon in my dining room, and it had me thinking about the type of work I'll be doing.
What fetish do you have that you think is more of a therapy to you? I've noticed that BDSM seems to help people a lot, and age regression I guess.. but what Kinks do you have that make you feel a little better inside not just sexually.

[WaterDude]

Water tank, fun underwater play

[Ni****]

Letting go of being in control is so much more mental than sexual to me…that’s the joy of submission for me

[Ma****]

A lot of my partners really enjoy the compression from a really good Shibari session. Which sometimes includes stretching. Such as the splits. There is definitely a sense of accomplishment, when did he progress is made towards a specific pose.

I also personally no some that really like a good impact session. That is one where they get a big dopamine High, after the fact.

[helpinghand_256]

For me, it's that I enjoy being trusted, and I enjoy teaching subs that they have a worth all their own that isn't dependent on what they can do for people. Ironically I do that in order to do things for them and feel better about myself, but in my most recent discussions with one particular sub under my consideration, I've found myself realising that in helping her feel better about her self-worth, and in helping her not feel guilty about things like eating, I end up also feeling better about being needed in that way. I have developed a self-confidence borne of being appreciated and wanted, and as it develops I look forward to it being independent of this relationship, wherever it goes.

[May-381]

Well for me...a good impact session always helps me through my rough days. I can't explain it, always makes me feel better to feel a bit of ***. Spanking benches are a necessity!

[Am****]

Sad to say but BDSM and like very rough kinks., releases my stress and makes me feel human again. Within reason always respect your partner

[Lo****]

Any subconscious *** can be turned into a kink, it just takes discovery with your client and creative application. Giving something they thought they’d never have, providing a safe space to re-explore a harmful scenario in a compassionate way.

[Ma****]

Ohh, and tickling!
Have a frind that always has a long line of people that loooove to get tied down and then tickled. Endorphins up the wazoo!

[Qu****]

5 hours ago, Marshal83 said:

Ohh, and tickling!
Have a frind that always has a long line of people that loooove to get tied down and then tickled. Endorphins up the wazoo!

Defo second this. It's underrated for the endorphin release of laughing uncontrollably for ages.

[Jaime6977]

I have lots of kinks that make me feel good. Some don't involve sex but still turn me on

 

[Si****]

As a sadist I do find impact play the***utic, relaxing, rhythmic and stress relieving. Sex doesn't need to be part of the package.

[ki****]

Built one in my back bedroom now we’re ready to play

[Lo****]

Yesterday at 02:00 AM, helpinghand_256 said:

For me, it's that I enjoy being trusted, and I enjoy teaching subs that they have a worth all their own that isn't dependent on what they can do for people. Ironically I do that in order to do things for them and feel better about myself, but in my most recent discussions with one particular sub under my consideration, I've found myself realising that in helping her feel better about her self-worth, and in helping her not feel guilty about things like eating, I end up also feeling better about being needed in that way. I have developed a self-confidence borne of being appreciated and wanted, and as it develops I look forward to it being independent of this relationship, wherever it goes.

You say you’ve grown a confidence and you want it to be independent from relationships with your subs,
You convince them that they have an immeasurable worth of their own independent from anything
Why are you not convincing yourself of that? That sounds like the key to claiming your confidence