Well not new but curious about DDLG dating sites ?

[Pantyraid]

Has anyone found a successful DDLG dating site ? Seems like the woman I tend to meet in this space are partnered and ENM “ which is not really my forte because as a Daddy Dom I do not like sharing 🤣 .. but seriously any help would be amazing

[FETMOD-TF]

Please feel free to make recommendations but as always no external links thanks. 

[Pi****]

The only one I know of is the ddlgforum

[Diaperhippie]

Reddit, fetlife. And the forum posted above.

[su****]

I'm having the same problem

[TJ****]

Kik has a fairly strong ddllg community and people find their other halves regularly there. Need to find the right rooms (search for bd. Or dd.)

Also check the AFF community chats.

[An****]

Please let me know what you find that works. 😞😞

[om****]

I have no idea what I'm doin, but I'm tryin it out

[Si****]

Welcome to dating in 2024 it’s all about polyamory and situationships because real commitments are to much work!

[Deleted Member]

Yesterday at 01:45 AM, FETMOD-TF said:

Please feel free to make recommendations but as always no external links thanks. 

Sorry. No more links. 💜

[lo****]

What is DDLG ? Never heard of such a thing. Someone care to enlighten me.

[Da****]

DDLG is a sub who enjoys being a Doms little girl and muse essentially. The better a Dom pleases, thrills, and plays his role as a reliable Daddy, the more am LG will please him and submit to him. Not much different than a DDBD/G but often w less of the little girl role play and more a maturer woman who's usually treated similarly or more sexually. It can be quite subjective and varied. It is hard to find truly loyal and consistent LGs, and a little easier finding DDBD's.

[lo****]

Thanks for the explanation. The more you know. You know.

[An****]

2 hours ago, DaddyDom66 said:

DDLG is a sub who enjoys being a Doms little girl and muse essentially. The better a Dom pleases, thrills, and plays his role as a reliable Daddy, the more am LG will please him and submit to him. Not much different than a DDBD/G but often w less of the little girl role play and more a maturer woman who's usually treated similarly or more sexually. It can be quite subjective and varied. It is hard to find truly loyal and consistent LGs, and a little easier finding DDBD's.

It is equally as hard finding a true DD much less one that fully commits to DDlg.

[Da****]

38 minutes ago, Angelbaby865 said:

It is equally as hard finding a true DD much less one that fully commits to DDlg.

I'myself fall into more of the PleasureDOM and Daddy side with ample rough when desired. Been seeking a little bi-sub, but not so easy to find ...

[Deleted Member]

Nope. If one existed, I'd probably know, hahah

[Fr****]

Been trying to find a little brat to spoil myself. Few and far between even when you offer an allowance

[Undersated]

Don't know of any successful sites dedicated to DDLG, but there are kink-friendly sites / apps on which you will find both monogamous and non-monogamous LGs in all of the varieties, among other people. FEELD is one example.

DDLG is so many different dynamics and dispositions that I doubt any one site could adequately cover it. Are you looking for a LG who is:

• Dominant, or submissive?
• Age-playing, or age-regressing, or dissociative?
• Adult baby, little, middle, or non-adulting?
• Independent, or expects you to support his/her lifestyle, or demands control of your ***?
• Straight, gay, bisexual, asexual?
• Monogamous, kitchen table poly, solo poly, hierarchical poly, open relationship?
• Bottom or top?
• Do you want a side of race play with that, for a more complicated dynamic?
• How about an actual age gap of 20 years or more, for another more complicated dynamic?
• Slave, or not?
• Experienced so he/she knows what they like and knows what they're doing, or inexperienced so you can shape them?
• Is LG their primary kink identity or is it one of many? Or do they even think of it as a kink?
• High-maintenance or low-maintenance relationship style?
• Bratty or obedient?
• Transactional / pro play, or a relationship?

LGs come in pretty much any combination of those things. Just math-wise there are about 50,000 variants. Some of the combinations might be beyond your ken (a LG who is an age-regressing monogamous top who wants control of your ***? Yup, seen it in the wild) but keep that mind open!

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Here's what I find works:

Instead of saying only that you want a DDLG relationship, and looking for a DDLG site to fill it, say what you actually want - and what you actually offer. Lay it out there, everywhere you can, in a respectful and honest way. Put yourself in the world and also let the world come to you. Not just on websites and apps; use that LGdar out in the real world, because sometimes that woman in a pretty 1950's style dress drinking coffee and coloring on her iPad is just what you both need in your lives.

For completeness, sites on which I have met compatible LGs:

• Craigslist
• OKCupid
• Bumble
• Fetlife
• FEELD
• Tinder
• AFF
• Fetish (you are here - and so are they)
• Others that are defunct, or that I can't remember
• Social sites unrelated to kink or lifestyle, but about a fandom or interest we had in common

Edited December 22, 2024 by Undersated

[Undersated]

^ I guess you can read "fin" for that starred-out word.

[Se****]

Sunday at 02:00 AM, Franzzy said:

Been trying to find a little brat to spoil myself. Few and far between even when you offer an allowance

Could try sugar daddy/baby sites. Not as many scrubbers

[ey****]

On 12/22/2024 at 2:00 AM, Franzzy said:

Been trying to find a little brat to spoil myself. Few and far between even when you offer an allowance

well on here; offering anyone cash is not permitted

elsewhere...

there are people who will take on something with an allowance, but a lot are sceptical especially as there is a big problem with sugar daddy scams (i.e. scams led by people posing as daddies offering ***) and another big issue with guys low balling or boundary pushing.

If that is a route you're going down, you are best looking specifically at sugar dating sites - but being aware that what you are offering should be in line with what you're asking in return.