Curious about ffm dynamic

[Le****]

Hello kinksters, I was wondering, is anyone here who tried ffm dynamic? How does that feel? How do you distribute your attention towards both of your partners to make them feel appreciated equally?Never tried it myself but from what I saw in some videos seems fun.

[MsDrawers]

Are you talking about entering into a longer term relationship with two women, or fucking two women?

[ge****]

Firstly put out of your head anything you saw in (presumably porn) videos - they're made to look fun!! And being honest if porn is your driver for wanting to experience one, then I'd seriously think again.
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Whilst not impossible to find, experiencing a threesome of any kind (relationship or simply a sexual encounter) with two women is something most men fantasise about but many never find, especially if they are single themselves.

[Ho****]

The one threesome I had (MMF) we all regretted it. I think because it was spontaneous, none of us felt we'd really chosen it. Obviously fun during, but it left that hollow feeling of "Wish I'd thought first" and it negatively affected the friendships in all directions.

I was told about one that was also spontaneous, but everyone knew each other very well and there was real affection between all three twosomes if you see what I mean.

If you're asking about relationship rather than sex/play, I'll leave others to share their experiences.

[Dr****]

Most ffm threesomes I've been in have gone really well. It helps if the girls are into each other too. There is something special about touching one body while inside of another.

[th****]

Something I've done a fair few times now. I wouldn't say it feels any different but the experience is much less you focused? In terms of distribution, it's easy as the odd one out because you go where you're wanted, I've found the others involved will work around that themselves. And if you're pushing yourself you'll need to have breaks that give them time to get together if inclined. Over all just make sure to use your hands, mouths and go with the flow from there. Most importantly is just relax though, like any other time with more or less you're all there to enjoy yourself so focus on it!

[Deleted Member]

I’ve had really successful threesomes where everyone had a blast and went with the flow, and I’ve also had ones where it became apparent very quickly that the man was the driving *** behind it and the woman was not into it at all, she was just trying to please her partner. I recommend a decent amount of conversation beforehand to establish ground rules and limits, and just kinda feel out the motivation behind it.

[Le****]

5 hours ago, MsDrawers said:

Are you talking about entering into a longer term relationship with two women, or fucking two women?

I was just curious about the experience itself. Don't really know about the out of the kink life, but I guess it could be a long term thing.

[Le****]

5 hours ago, gemini_man said:

Firstly put out of your head anything you saw in (presumably porn) videos - they're made to look fun!! And being honest if porn is your driver for wanting to experience one, then I'd seriously think again.
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Whilst not impossible to find, experiencing a threesome of any kind (relationship or simply a sexual encounter) with two women is something most men fantasise about but many never find, especially if they are single themselves.

Thank you for the advice, really appreciate it. I had some doubts that in real life it is way different from the films, which is the point of the post overall. Thank you for confirming it for me.

[Le****]

4 hours ago, Hotchpotch said:

The one threesome I had (MMF) we all regretted it. I think because it was spontaneous, none of us felt we'd really chosen it. Obviously fun during, but it left that hollow feeling of "Wish I'd thought first" and it negatively affected the friendships in all directions.

I was told about one that was also spontaneous, but everyone knew each other very well and there was real affection between all three twosomes if you see what I mean.

If you're asking about relationship rather than sex/play, I'll leave others to share their experiences.

Thank you for sharing. Appreciate it.

[Le****]

4 hours ago, DrewSelling said:

Most ffm threesomes I've been in have gone really well. It helps if the girls are into each other too. There is something special about touching one body while inside of another.

Well, thank you for sharing. I've learnt something out of it, which is greatly appreciated.

[Le****]

2 hours ago, TheMistressIvy said:

I’ve had really successful threesomes where everyone had a blast and went with the flow, and I’ve also had ones where it became apparent very quickly that the man was the driving *** behind it and the woman was not into it at all, she was just trying to please her partner. I recommend a decent amount of conversation beforehand to establish ground rules and limits, and just kinda feel out the motivation behind it.

Good to know. Thank you for taking your time to share this advice. Greatly appreciate it.

[Di****]

One though “Danny you got two pussies now what you gonna do with um?” I just laughed my ass off and my usefulness for a few minutes, bu bu baby I said, um I don’t ah know… um stack um? So they did! I don’t know what that’s actually called but yeah it’s in the middle of the pornos. Just don’t know the name. Stacking kitty ? Stack the 🐱 🐱? Sometimes you just pretend to fall asleep in between um and get them to watch Star Trek or housewives take methadone. Perry mason have asleep and surrounded by boops and butts aww yeah!!!!

[Hezzair]

Having done the FFM thing a number of times, I can decidedly say it is quite fun, but much more fun if both women are bi. Otherwise it is really a FMF because then the attention is going to the guy. Remember, the letter in the middle is the stuffing of the sexy sandwich of the threesome! A true FFM I personally think tends to distribute the attention equally to all the partners involved, at least with the folks I have played with.