Cuckolding

[Priscillass]

Hi Kinksters! I am new here. I just want to say I'm so excited to join this community and I'm looking forward to learning so much. I need some advise. I am by nature a brat (sub) but I find it difficult to meet a Dom who can really give me what I want. I've had one only. In between that I get into vanilla relationships where I find myself being Dominant. I don't *** it or anything. I recently started talking to this sweet guy who opened up to me about his insecurities relating to his penis side. He said he is looking into cuckolding and asked if I could help him. Is there anyone who can offer me some help/advise on how best to go about it? From both perspectives. TIA!

[azreark1]

Is this a guy you want a relationship with or just help him out with his kink side?

[Ea****]

Welcome

[cautiousswitch]

The original term cuckold referred to a man whose wife was cheating on him.  Usually, either everyone else knew it was going on and he was clueless or he knew about it and everyone else ridiculed him about it.  In short, he wasn't man enough for his wife so she went looking elsewhere.

If this guy thinks that cuckolding is a way of dealing with his insecurities it raises the question does he want to be the cuckold or does he want to be the one cuckolding another man?  If he relishes his insecurities and is looking to be humiliated by being the cuckold then he shouldn't have too much trouble finding people to help, if nothing else a professional dom/me can set something up.  If he is looking to cuckold someone else to build his own confidence then other people may be looking for someone with more experience and h may have problems because of his current insecurities.

Of course, in BDSM cuckolding isn't necessarily about sexual intercourse.  It could just be casual play.  The main point is that the cuckold is aware that it's going on and the active participants are making it known that he's not being included because he's not good enough.

[Deleted Member]

Hi @Priscillass

Simple cuckolding solution: he watches, preferably restrained, while you get fucked by a handsome or large-cocked stud. You throw some verbal *** his way, about how he could never satisfy you with his tiny, useless penis etc

The more complex, more satisfying, cuckold situation emerges when you actually have a D/s relationship with the guy. But that depends whether you want to be a Domme and make him your sub? 

It's also not as easy as you'd think to find studs willing to fuck you in front of your cuckold. But you could post an ad here  

[Priscillass]

@MsWhiteRose This sounds amazing!! Thank you so much ❤

[Priscillass]

On 3/12/2020 at 4:20 PM, azreark1 said:

Is this a guy you want a relationship with or just help him out with his kink side?

Just help. I don't think I want a relationship with him 

[Priscillass]

On 3/13/2020 at 1:55 PM, cautiousswitch said:

The original term cuckold referred to a man whose wife was cheating on him.  Usually, either everyone else knew it was going on and he was clueless or he knew about it and everyone else ridiculed him about it.  In short, he wasn't man enough for his wife so she went looking elsewhere.

If this guy thinks that cuckolding is a way of dealing with his insecurities it raises the question does he want to be the cuckold or does he want to be the one cuckolding another man?  If he relishes his insecurities and is looking to be humiliated by being the cuckold then he shouldn't have too much trouble finding people to help, if nothing else a professional dom/me can set something up.  If he is looking to cuckold someone else to build his own confidence then other people may be looking for someone with more experience and h may have problems because of his current insecurities.

Of course, in BDSM cuckolding isn't necessarily about sexual intercourse.  It could just be casual play.  The main point is that the cuckold is aware that it's going on and the active participants are making it known that he's not being included because he's not good enough.

He wants to be the cuckold as a way to deal with his insecurities. He is so....meek?* that he can't help being submissive even in interactions lol

Thank you for your insight 

Edited March 14, 2020 by Priscillass