Deleted Member Posted March 13, 2020 Posted March 13, 2020 In my 3rd year of university I was assigned a group of first years to look after during freshers week; of of these freshers (call her Amy) went on to become my 24/7 submissive. Me and Amy got on incredibly well from day 1, and on the last night of freshers week we slept together and it was great. Over the course of the year we talked a lot and would hook up if we were both on a night out together. Fast forward to the second week of 4th year and I was living in a 2 bedroom flat by myself, Amy had fallen out with her then housemates so I offered for her to stay in my spare room for free until she found an alternative. She accepted but insisted she do something as payment so offered to do all the housework and to cook for me on nights we were both home. As we were living together we were no longer sleeping together to prevent the situation getting complicated, although we never discussed it, it's kinda just how things played out. After about a month, things were going good so I never pressed her about finding another place - I actually liked the company and having an incredibly tidy and clean flat! But I brought another girl back home one night with Amy in the other room not really thinking about how she would feel (we weren't a couple so it never even occurred to me). The next few days Amy was really quiet and off with me so when I asked her if it was because I slept with someone else she replied saying it was because she was actaully jealous I had chosen the other girl and not her. I explained that I didnt want to complicate things or make her feel like she had to sleep with me to stay in my flat. She jokingly replied saying that if she kept doing the housework and earning her stay then would I be okay sleeping with her, to which I of course said okay if she was happy with that. After a few weeks of this "arrangement" and her staying in my bed every night (even without me) I saw her on a night out flirting with a group of guys she knew - I went over and whispered to her "i guess you can stay in your own bed tonight" in a joking manner and left her to it (was none of my business if she wanted to go back with them and I didnt mind if that was the case). I got back home in the early hours and Amy had come home before me, her shoes were there and she had left some lights on, but not sign of a guy so I poked my head in to her room to check on her and she had actually gone to sleep in her bed as I had said - so I left her and went to bed in my room. The next morning she came through with an energy drink, some breakfast in bed and had layed out my gym clothes ready to go; she said this was her way to make up for being bad the night before and 'breaking the rules' which we laughed about. At this point it had become the norm for us to sleep together in my room every night, but we weren't going on dates or acknowledging our relationship as anything official. I said to her she didnt have to keep doing any extra house work or doing anything special for me. But, she came out and said that she actually really enjoyed it and that it gave her a sense of excitement whenever she did anything for me and she couldn't explain why, but she liked earning my approval. We started talking about it and toying with the idea of her doing more things for me and me giving her actual rewards beyond just us sleeping together. We played around with ideas for around a week and eventually came up with a points system that she would have to follow to earn rewards, and punishments if she failed completely. There would be tasks she would have to complete every day that would get earn her 0 points for completing but negative points if she didnt. Some tasks would be worth 1 or 2 points and be relatively simple and easy to do and then the bigger tasks would be worth more points. And some things would get instant negative points - a pretty simple system really. Then at the end of every day if she finished with 0 or fewer points she would have to sleep on her own, and depending how much below 0 she went depended on what other punishments she would receive. If she finished with 1 point or more she could use those points to buy rewards or save them up towards a bigger reward. The tasks ranged from bssics of doing daily stretches, drinking enough water, letting me chose her underwear, sending one risque picture a day or innocent things like her bringing me a coffee after a lecture to get a hug in return Or to more sexual things like me texting her saying she had to come meet me then and there and give me her underwear that she was wearing that day (Underwear I had also chosen for her the night before), wearing our remote vibrator for a period of time, or wearing a small plug for the day. Some of the punishments would involve something simple like wearing a larger plug to bed, or having to edge for X time and then try to sleep. On the days were she felt extra bratty and was really bad one of my punishments involved making her drink lots of water and then having to sleep in bondage all night - if she could hold it all night she would be rewarded the next morning, but if she couldn't then she was ***d to sleep in the mess she had made (I would always clean up after as part of my role). The list of tasks, punishments and rewards grew and grew and became very thorough over the course of the year and there were never any problems or issues with the DS dynamic. I would always allow her to have days off if she wasnt well or in the right frame of mind, and she never ***d this just to get out of things. I always made sure that her after care was my top priority when doing anything on the limit or that pushed her boundaries and it is a dynamic I would love to have back one day!! Sadly after I left uni, she had a few years left so we mutually agreed to end things and go our separate ways as we wouldnt be able to maintain it with long distance - she is currently seeing another guy now and I always wonder if she has her own new set of rules with that guy
BabiiGirl91 Posted March 13, 2020 Posted March 13, 2020 Wow this sounds incredible and seems you both had a wonderful time! This is the type of dynamic I hope to have some day x
Deleted Member Posted March 13, 2020 Author Posted March 13, 2020 Thankyou, it really was :) I would reccomend this type of dynamic to every person I met! Maybe not the vanilla types though
Deleted Member Posted March 14, 2020 Author Posted March 14, 2020 You guys are so lucky. Really sounds so good
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