Dreamaway Posted March 21, 2020 Posted March 21, 2020 The fakers misunderstand the basic domme/sub relationship. They assume a domme has the right to demand anything they like from a potential sub.
cautiousswitch Posted March 21, 2020 Posted March 21, 2020 Compare the picture to the personal information. I've got one whose picture does not look like someone 172 cm and 91 kg, but she claims to be.
ey**** Posted March 21, 2020 Posted March 21, 2020 39 minutes ago, cautiousswitch said: That's the weird part. It seems like the majority of the scammers claim to be dommes. You'd think a sub would be more willing to please someone so readily. yeah; on any site I've very rarely had an attempt scam from someone as a sub - it has happened - but usually it's someone who poses as a Domme. Although sometimes it's an unspecified role in a "I just want to play" or just straight up sex.
Deleted Member Posted March 21, 2020 Posted March 21, 2020 48 minutes ago, cautiousswitch said: Compare the picture to the personal information. I've got one whose picture does not look like someone 172 cm and 91 kg, but she claims to be. I have seen some measuring 50cm 😂😂
Kriss123 Posted March 22, 2020 Author Posted March 22, 2020 2 hours ago, FabSeverus said: Not always, I had few subs calling master or Sir straight away. Then ask me for some *** over some ugly pic of themselves. Then you have the pretending real sub who’s really just attention seekers for few days then block you when you ask for a reality check then move to another Dom.... I expect a real good scammer can do both...also armed with the ability to sit tight for months..waiting to spot a weakness
ey**** Posted March 22, 2020 Posted March 22, 2020 6 minutes ago, Brittone2 said: I expect a real good scammer can do both...also armed with the ability to sit tight for months..waiting to spot a weakness but you have to ask what incentive they have to do this also. This is something I've mentioned on a few threads about scams. So, like 'work' you look at effort v reward. A long game scam needs to be financially lucrative and also looking for where the issue is. So most scams targeting men try to offer them exactly what they want fairly quickly in the hope they'll drop around £100 or so. It's not worth stringing someone on more than a couple of days for the sake of £100 unless you've multiple marks on the go you're confident of reeling all in. The big *** scams that often get covered in news stories involve a longer game and the format is often around distance - that the grifter is posing as someone who works away (often military) and usually woos somebody over a period of time and then, bang, the meeting is cancelled due to leave being denied and the only way to meet is to pay a five figure discharge fee. Other variations apply. But if you're getting thousands these can go on months. Slightly less common these days is the person for whom something is always going wrong. They'd text you but never have phone credit, they'd drive to see you but car breaks and needs fixing and they don't have the *** (pay for car fixed or pay for train fare) whatever and it's usually a string of low value calamities. Obviously in the days of wifi on phones and "unlimited texts" - do you even need phone credit a lot of the time? (my work phone didn't even have a sim in it!) and obviously in this it becomes "OK, I'll send £10 so you can text" or "Yeah, I can do £20 to help you with that" - but, I guess, tying in with the above that it's not worth taking more than a couple of days for £100 - this is a lot slower earner and too fragile these days.
Kriss123 Posted March 22, 2020 Author Posted March 22, 2020 3 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said: but you have to ask what incentive they have to do this also. This is something I've mentioned on a few threads about scams. So, like 'work' you look at effort v reward. A long game scam needs to be financially lucrative and also looking for where the issue is. So most scams targeting men try to offer them exactly what they want fairly quickly in the hope they'll drop around £100 or so. It's not worth stringing someone on more than a couple of days for the sake of £100 unless you've multiple marks on the go you're confident of reeling all in. The big *** scams that often get covered in news stories involve a longer game and the format is often around distance - that the grifter is posing as someone who works away (often military) and usually woos somebody over a period of time and then, bang, the meeting is cancelled due to leave being denied and the only way to meet is to pay a five figure discharge fee. Other variations apply. But if you're getting thousands these can go on months. Slightly less common these days is the person for whom something is always going wrong. They'd text you but never have phone credit, they'd drive to see you but car breaks and needs fixing and they don't have the *** (pay for car fixed or pay for train fare) whatever and it's usually a string of low value calamities. Obviously in the days of wifi on phones and "unlimited texts" - do you even need phone credit a lot of the time? (my work phone didn't even have a sim in it!) and obviously in this it becomes "OK, I'll send £10 so you can text" or "Yeah, I can do £20 to help you with that" - but, I guess, tying in with the above that it's not worth taking more than a couple of days for £100 - this is a lot slower earner and too fragile these days. Yes but blacksheep it maybe a long haul to get £100but it's effortless..This is going back a long time now but Ghana was top of the list country which had the most scammers operating...
Mo**** Posted March 22, 2020 Posted March 22, 2020 Just report them and hopefully they will be taken down. I am on other sites and those bastards do nothing to the point where about 60% of female profiles are FAKE, and/or scammers. If this place acts then we won't end up like other sites, or not to the same degree anyway.
Kriss123 Posted March 22, 2020 Author Posted March 22, 2020 The real challenge of course is to converse with these scammers tell them the good you can see in them and show them that a better way of life is within their grasp... Yes I have...🤘
Mo**** Posted March 22, 2020 Posted March 22, 2020 44 minutes ago, Brittone2 said: The real challenge of course is to converse with these scammers tell them the good you can see in them and show them that a better way of life is within their grasp... Yes I have...🤘 I have NO time or patience for these critters, and who knows what their end game may be. It is better to report or ban them. That may get them to wake up and be honest.
Kriss123 Posted March 22, 2020 Author Posted March 22, 2020 Lol of course there is that option which works as well..Apples and oranges..
qu**** Posted March 22, 2020 Posted March 22, 2020 (edited) I once kept someone I suspected of being a scammer going for 6 months, it was obvious it was more than one person, anyways, all of a sudden their manager replied saying " fuck off wasting our time", they disappeared when I emailed them an invoice for my time 😁 Edited March 22, 2020 by quietlysure They not their
ey**** Posted March 22, 2020 Posted March 22, 2020 if you know someone is a scammer or timewaster - even playing along is wasting your own time. it's time that can always be used better.
Deleted Member Posted March 22, 2020 Posted March 22, 2020 I feel the same way. I usually report them. hope fetish make a photo verification check as a main requirement when signing up.
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