Read the profile...

[qu****]

Why do so many men (in particular) seem to read more into a profile that's actually there, I mean you see comments under photos that have absolutely no correlation to what's actually written within the profile.

JUST TRY READING FIRST !!!

 

[SolomanStrange]

Why dont people read profiles full stop?

[ey****]

Men (In particularly) like to insert their own fantasies.   I had this just yesterday with someone on a.n.other site who was writing out his own fantasies on some of my photos.  But, it's crude and it's rude and, yeah, the lack of self awareness gets noticed by, and puts off, the very people they're trying to attract

[Deleted Member]

Few read profiles, most are just interested in photos, sex, porn than the actual ideas about what the site is 

[Deleted Member]

The number of men who write to me as a mistress FFS 🤨

[Deleted Member]

2 minutes ago, Curvykate said:

The number of men who write to me as a mistress FFS 🤨

😂😂and you have a collar on your pic profile ! 
well you could have an army of cleaners for you 😜

[Wo****]

I get a fair few messages from people that quite obviously haven't read my profile, despite viewing it several times. I have some that still ask if they can serve me, or if I'll do whatever with them, after I ever so politely (or not actually, come to think of it) tell them I'm not interested.

 

[Deleted Member]

I always read profiles. I have to be sure that the person could be compatible if I decide to contact them. I sometimes can't believe how stupid some guys can be. I've seen a woman who clearly looked submissive. All her pics were in the submissive poses. And then some guy in the comments: "I'll serve you, mistress." Didn't even need to read the profile, the pics themselves showed clearly who she was.

 

But on the funny side, I always laugh at the scammers who scout through my profile numerous times, and still fail to see my status that clearly says: "No cash for you."

[qu****]

I filled in the essentials on mine, but left it vague, the amount of messages I get saying seen, read and loving your profile, I mean, Really....

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[Deleted Member]

Sadly true, I've even had men hit on me despite my profile stating I'm heterosexual. It is sad to see the comments section under photos as they are often filled with creepy and even aggressive comments.
Not to mention the whole "message me" followed a few hours later by "hey you haven't messaged me yet".
I mean of course the poster of the photo should be shamed for not recognising that they have been deemed worthy of the great honour of being allowed to speak to "bigcockmaster" or "Imyodaddy" ect. (Sarcasm is heavily applied to this last paragraph.)
Frankly it's pathetic but no doubt a serious annoyance to people who post those photos. I mean I get annoyed by them so I can't imagine what a *** it must be to have these fuckbois swarm your photos.

[Phoenyx]

4 hours ago, Curvykate said:

The number of men who write to me as a mistress FFS

Don't even get me started on this one...  I have lost count of the number of lady Dommes who have written to me, asking me to become their slave.  This, after it was clear that they had viewed my profile.  Even if they couldn't read (or were to lazy to) the pictures should have made my position obvious.  I'm a Dom!  If I was "submissive", would I have a pic of me, standing with a stern expression, brandishing a whip?  Really?!

52 minutes ago, MaskedDom said:

Not to mention the whole "message me" followed a few hours later by "hey you haven't messaged me yet".

In response, I typically write: "Didn't you read my profile?"  One Mistress actually had the audacity to send back a disrespectful, "No!"  To that, I replied, "Are you lookin' to get spanked?!"

[li****]

I've had guys message me just on the basis of my pictures ect, they haven't even bothered to scroll past my pics and actually read my profile. If they did they would see I clearly have a Dom that I am happy with and not looking for anything else. Some will be respectful in their messages ect just wanna get to know me as a friend and that I respect, but the ones that are just after a quick wank are instantly sent the no thanks and hide message and then put on ignore (want a quick wank use pornhub). The one thing I've never got is messages saying may I serve you , can I be your loyal slave ect.

[Ze****]

56 minutes ago, phoenyx said:

In response, I typically write: "Didn't you read my profile?"  One Mistress actually had the audacity to send back a disrespectful, "No!"  To that, I replied, "Are you lookin' to get spanked?!"

I've done that as well. For some strange reason they haven't come back to me.

[Deleted Member]

Most ladies do not read my profile.
If they did, they know i do not want to be contacted to be dominated by someone 500+ miles away.
But every week i get a few messages which olny contain a "Hi" from a female from the other side of the world.
So it is a general issue not only male members.
But always in for a chat for all around the world.

[ey****]

12 minutes ago, Robbio1972 said:

But every week i get a few messages which olny contain a "Hi" from a female from the other side of the world.
So it is a general issue not only male members.

no; they're guys posing as women to scam you.  So. Still guys.

[PrincessServeen]

Sometimes people just want to talk. They should read profiles first but some people like me for example want to take a while to get a feel for things before playing. People like me just want conversation for a while

[Deleted Member]

On 3/29/2020 at 12:04 PM, FabSeverus said:

😂😂and you have a collar on your pic profile ! 
well you could have an army of cleaners for you 😜

I would LOVE that @FabSeverus. Damn it, never going to happen!

[Vandalslut]

On 3/30/2020 at 11:55 PM, PrincessServeen said:

Sometimes people just want to talk. They should read profiles first but some people like me for example want to take a while to get a feel for things before playing. People like me just want conversation for a while

I just read your profile and think you are a very wise young person. If you would like to chat to people, contribute as often as you can to the discussions and if you do send a message to someone, open it with, "Hi, I'm PrincessServeen and I'd like to ask you about a point you made in a  discussion on...." Even in text, it's easy to get a 'feel' for things.  Good luck.

[Ky****]

On 3/29/2020 at 7:59 PM, eyemblacksheep said:

no; they're guys posing as women to scam you.  So. Still guys.

may be a dumb question, I'm noted for those, but how can you know this?

[Ky****]

@MaskedDom curious as to how they send you a follow up message, I thought the site blocked these for 3 months unless you do reply?

[Deleted Member]

10 minutes ago, Kymi said:

@MaskedDom curious as to how they send you a follow up message, I thought the site blocked these for 3 months unless you do reply?

I don't get follow up messages as that feature stops it. However on photos there isn't a restriction on comments. So often these people will use that to follow up. For example a photo I saw before had a comment saying "hey you should message me" then the next comment posted 4 hours later was "you stuck up B****!" So yeah reported that.

Thankfully with the people who have messaged me they have lost interest and don't comment on my photos (guess I'm not pretty enough lol) 

I did respond to the first person and politely said I wasn't gay only for him to call me a homophobe lol. So yeah I just delete them now.

[ey****]

1 hour ago, Kymi said:

may be a dumb question, I'm noted for those, but how can you know this?

Here's the simple thing - I mean, these 'women' don't pop in for a chat cos they think you're cool - they usually pop in and turn on the "I'd like to meet you" fairly quickly.  They'll usually also try to take you off-site fairly quickly.  From there it makes them less traceable when they run the scam.  Part of this will get you to hand over a bunch of personal details (I had someone the other day very quickly asking for my real name, location, age etc. and then taking me off site gets my email and/or phone number) but there'll usually be some attempt within there to get you to pay.  Usually a tribute for the chat or the old fake store where you're told to spend £100/$100 on a collar and a butt plug (the store doesn't exist)

And, here's why it's guys running these scams.

Men have to stop when they get the cash - because there's no point they can prove who they are.  If this was really a woman, then why would they stop there? If you're happy to send *** they can either keep this up and keep collecting, or just run it as a legitimate trade rather than a scam.

[Ky****]

@eyemblacksheep with me in the past the item has always been a cock cage but I understand the scam and asking for *** without the right sign is a sure sign.  The thing I hadn't figured out was that these maybe men.  Of course its possible that this hasn't happened to me because my profile doesn't restrict me to wanting domes, male dom welcome as well, even before I changed id to trans-or maybe it has and I've been to dumb to have noticed, maybe I should get a brunette wig to go with the blonde and bubble-gum pink ones for when I need to think.  Although tbh in my case it probably doesn't make a difference since its the scam I need to look out for not the gender of the scammer.

[Deleted Member]

75% don’t read profiles. I received messages from findom asking me if I want to be a slave 🤷‍♂️ I mean even my pic is defo Dom like ! Or men message my kitten asking if she want to be their Domme or what she’s looking for on here 🤦‍♂️ 
i think people don’t know how to read anymore and just look at pictures 

[Ky****]

13 minutes ago, FabSeverus said:

75% don’t read profiles. I received messages from findom asking me if I want to be a slave 🤷‍♂️ I mean even my pic is defo Dom like ! Or men message my kitten asking if she want to be their Domme or what she’s looking for on here 🤦‍♂️ 
i think people don’t know how to read anymore and just look at pictures 

maybe they think this is a porn website lol, words nah what use are they