Need help

[Stevie-8637]

How does one tell a female that instead of wearing boxers or brief that you wear panties I want a female to accept me for who I am and don’t wanna start off with a lie? Any pointers?

[Deleted Member]

Yes tell the truth from the start.If she can't accept you for what you are then you know she's not the one.No point hiding it for it to come out later in the relationship when the chance of emotional *** is much higher.Truth from the off and you can't go wrong.

[SolomanStrange]

Be confident, say it with 100 % conviction as if it is the most normal thing in the world. Believe it. Believe her acceptance. Practice this belief.

You could start by asking what her darkest fantasies are what's the naughtyest thing she has ever done..

When the question is posed to you just say it with total authority own it.

You will be surprised... women love to be told what to do...

If she doesn't like it plenty more fish in the see. Rember your the catch!

[Deleted Member]

It’s completely up to you whether you want to just straight out lay your cards on the table initially or whether you want to bring up the conversation speaking about someone else third person to see the reaction... 

 

[Deleted Member]

My ex had similar interests which i questioned out of him. Had I not he would never have told me which would have been a massive shame for him. Guys, gals and those inbetween/undecided honesty is the best policy. No, it's not always easy and the hard truth is some people will reject you for it but surely alone and true to yourself beats a false relationship where you're living a lie and building resentment?

[helenOfToy]

It's always a big decision when, how and who in the vanilla world about your kinks, believe me I know.
Does she know you are kinky? A conversation about kink might be a good way to start rather than just springing it on her.

[Charms]

Tell them the truth. Because if down the line you fall for her and she finds out and she freaks u r going 2 get hurt more.

 

Big hugs good luck

[Karluvonne]

Honestly. Just come out and tell her before she has to ask you about them. I have worn things half my life and have no trouble telling anyone. Remember it doesn't make you any less of a man. Stand up and be proud of your choices in life no matter how small.

[Stevie-8637]

Thank you all for the advice you all have made it very easy on me it’s even made me open up to her about my other kinks and she accepts it

[Stevie-8637]

Thank you all for the advice you all have made it very easy on me it’s even made me open up to her about my other kinks and she accepts it

[Stevie-8637]

I opened up about my abdl fetish too she even buys me my diapers now 

[Charms]

Thats grear news