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hello all. i've been exploring my submissive side for a good few years and have recently began actively seeking a Domme. while engaging with a few in recent weeks i have noticed that they have not at all requested a photo of me. i am curious is this a common thing for Domme's to not care what their potential sub looks like and are more just interested in what he can bring to her life with service? thank you all in advance. 

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Stuff here depends on the Dominants you are contacting.  If for example it's Pros with a view to book a session then attitude is usually rated above appearance

if it's someone just in a chatting get-to-know stage then name to face might be nice but not essential prior to a meet

or, if it's a scammer, they definitely won't care.

Lack of photos can be offputting to some in some occasions for sure.

cautiousswitch
Posted

Pretty much what eyemblacksheep said.

Honesty about your experience, showing that you've taken the time to do a little research, and respect are as attractive as any physical attributes in BDSM.  Sometimes they're more attractive.

 

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