Finding my submissive side

[Kirra86]

I live in a fairytale and sometimes i am aggressive naturally but im looking for the more submissive side of me .....how do i find it 

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Hey, can we talk?

[Ky****]

On 5/28/2020 at 3:00 AM, Kirra86 said:

I live in a fairytale and sometimes i am aggressive naturally but im looking for the more submissive side of me .....how do i find it 

in my case it was thinking about what it would be like imagining myself in sub positions and gradually it just materialised, booked a few sessions with pro domes to assist with mechanics and here I am

visualisation can be a powerful tool

[Leisa]

As a very strong woman I love being free to safely place my naturally controlling self into the hands of my dominant. I have a lot of responsibility on my plate daily and being able to shuck off the control at the end of the day is what brings all involved pleasure and happiness. There’s nothing like being able to let myself fall into my dominate and knowing he will be my safe space to put away my controlling, dominant, aggressive tendencies and just allow myself to feel his power. Being strong naturally it will take extra communication, honesty, and trust for you to feel safe to put aside your natural instincts to become ***. The journey is worth every moment.

[Deleted Member]

22 hours ago, Leisa said:

As a very strong woman I love being free to safely place my naturally controlling self into the hands of my dominant. I have a lot of responsibility on my plate daily and being able to shuck off the control at the end of the day is what brings all involved pleasure and happiness. There’s nothing like being able to let myself fall into my dominate and knowing he will be my safe space to put away my controlling, dominant, aggressive tendencies and just allow myself to feel his power. Being strong naturally it will take extra communication, honesty, and trust for you to feel safe to put aside your natural instincts to become ***. The journey is worth every moment.

I understand this and agree more deeply than you know. Though I am a switch who is PRIMARILY Dominant, it is comforting to know you have a safe space where that can be set aside for a while.

[Ky****]

@Leisa yes that's a good point, in my case its finding that space to set aside all the nasty psychological baggage of being born with y chromosome and the upbringing that entailed, still find visualisation great for getting into sub space