Spider Gag / O-Ring

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Did it ever occur to any Dommes (or submissives) they could use a spider gag or o-ring to surrender more power? The submissive would have his mouth ***d open (through freely given consent by both parties) this way and thus his mouth would be for the Domme to use as She pleases, e.g. for receiving head, or for giving strap-on. It appears to me, even a petite Domme could get a strong masculine submissive to submit this way, for example if he were to give permission for Her to use a taser, or chloroform perhaps and then tie him up as part of roleplay.

Does this idea appeal to anyone or is it too much? Too dangerous? Or perhaps Dommes prefer their submissives to submit entirely without ***. How would you navigate consent - i.e. using a safety word with your mouth pried open is not possible, so perhaps there would be a different kind of mechanism for that, e.g. tapping twice, or humming a melody if your hands are tied and thus can't tap.

Edited June 8, 2020 by Deleted Member

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Like anything there's risk to be considered - but - I've filmed and edited a bunch of scenes with an o-ring

So - I did a spittoon clip with the o-ring and also a foot fetish scene - I'm sure I've done another also, but I forget - because you often have to be careful as it cuts into the gums so there's sometimes a little *** when you remove the gag

and a clip I edited was like a cocksucking training clip where the sub had the o-ring to keep their mouth open and then practiced on a dildo.

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5 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

Like anything there's risk to be considered - but - I've filmed and edited a bunch of scenes with an o-ring

So - I did a spittoon clip with the o-ring and also a foot fetish scene - I'm sure I've done another also, but I forget - because you often have to be careful as it cuts into the gums so there's sometimes a little *** when you remove the gag

and a clip I edited was like a cocksucking training clip where the sub had the o-ring to keep their mouth open and then practiced on a dildo.

Interesting I've only ever seen one femdom scene with an o-ring and it was not particularly good but you direct them? Seems to be something more specific to maledom for some reason.

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2 minutes ago, BlushingFlush said:

Interesting I've only ever seen one femdom scene with an o-ring and it was not particularly good but you direct them? Seems to be something more specific to maledom for some reason.

I've been a film slave for about 4 years, done nearly 300 clips.  Last year I opened my own store also.   But also, I've helped other ladies out - like - if they've had a film day but don't have the time to sort everything out then I'll edit the clips or whatever.  

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Just now, eyemblacksheep said:

I've been a film slave for about 4 years, done nearly 300 clips.  Last year I opened my own store also.   But also, I've helped other ladies out - like - if they've had a film day but don't have the time to sort everything out then I'll edit the clips or whatever.  

Did you ever shoot a scene where the o-ring was for cunnilingus rather than strap-on?

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10 minutes ago, BlushingFlush said:

Did you ever shoot a scene where the o-ring was for cunnilingus rather than strap-on?

No. It's not impossible - but whilst I've filmed with a couple of people who are known Porn Stars, most are Dommes so would never usually film something someone can't ask them for.  

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9 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

No. It's not impossible - but whilst I've filmed with a couple of people who are known Porn Stars, most are Dommes so would never usually film something someone can't ask them for.  

But as long as it's discussed before hand and a mechanism for safety word is ensured, surely the Domme can have a pretty good idea what the sub wants?

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41 minutes ago, BlushingFlush said:

But as long as it's discussed before hand and a mechanism for safety word is ensured, surely the Domme can have a pretty good idea what the sub wants?

Just cos a sub wants something doesn't mean the Domme is bound to give it to them  

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4 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

Just cos a sub wants something doesn't mean the Domme is bound to give it to them

I'm fully aware but you didn't describe a situation where they wouldn't want it themselves: you said they might be hesitant to do something the sub can't ask for.

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20 minutes ago, BlushingFlush said:

you said they might be hesitant to do something the sub can't ask for.

Sorry, can't ask for as in - they wouldn't offer it in a session.

While subtle exceptions apply - anything a Domme does in a video there should, in theory, be nothing to stop someone saying "I really liked what you did in that video, would you do it with me in a session" 

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1 minute ago, eyemblacksheep said:

Sorry, can't ask for as in - they wouldn't offer it in a session.

While subtle exceptions apply - anything a Domme does in a video there should, in theory, be nothing to stop someone saying "I really liked what you did in that video, would you do it with me in a session" 

I get you now. Shame more women don't like to have a guy go down on them.

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It's not necessarily that they don't like it.  Just that they wouldn't offer it in a session, especially not with a stranger. 

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1 minute ago, eyemblacksheep said:

It's not necessarily that they don't like it.  Just that they wouldn't offer it in a session, especially not with a stranger. 

Do you think there's a reason for that, e.g. *** of STIs? A little sensitive down there? Insecure about their own genitalia and how it looks/tastes/feels?

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49 minutes ago, BlushingFlush said:

Do you think there's a reason for that, e.g. *** of STIs? A little sensitive down there? Insecure about their own genitalia and how it looks/tastes/feels?

I think there is a reason, but none of those.  Moreso a reason around boundaries. 

Most who work professionally get regularly tested anyway - because obviously this is an environment where there may well be ***, *** and cum. But a lot whose main shtick is Domination do not really offer anything that is sexual contact (aside from strap on)

 

[Dreamaway]

A Taser or Chloroform.. you must be slightly deranged to even consider these types of ***. You could end up with a body on your hands. Both are extremely dangerous in the wrong hands and have no place in any scene. Filmwork may be but again, it would be acting, certainly not the real thing.

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Just now, Dreamaway said:

A Taser or Chloroform.. you must be slightly deranged to even consider these types of ***. You could end up with a body on your hands. Both are extremely dangerous in the wrong hands and have no place in any scene. Filmwork may be but again, it would be acting, certainly not the real thing.

Well I would be the body in that situation so not like I'm imposing it on anyone else. Besides police use tasers all the time and it's not like I have a heart condition.

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1 hour ago, BlushingFlush said:

Well I would be the body in that situation so not like I'm imposing it on anyone else. Besides police use tasers all the time and it's not like I have a heart condition.

You'd be imposing your death on them, potentially.

Police use them, yes, and they're powerful tools used to immobilise criminals!!

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3 minutes ago, LazyPiratesBounty said:

You'd be imposing your death on them, potentially.

I don't think I'd be likely to die unless it was on a marble floor, or they used the taser again and again or something.

 

4 minutes ago, LazyPiratesBounty said:

Police use them, yes, and they're powerful tools used to immobilise criminals!!

Which makes them so effective!

 

Ok, what if instead of a taser, she used mace spray ... or a baseball bat? Plastic blade that looks real? I used to spar MMA, you're gonna have to think outside the box here!

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41 minutes ago, BlushingFlush said:

I don't think I'd be likely to die unless it was on a marble floor, or they used the taser again and again or something.

 

Which makes them so effective!

 

Ok, what if instead of a taser, she used mace spray ... or a baseball bat? Plastic blade that looks real? I used to spar MMA, you're gonna have to think outside the box here!

"He didn't think he was likely to die"....

But....... he did. 

 

Is it really worth the risk?

 

 

Think outside the box?

Hm, you're blindfolded.... plastic knife drawn across your skin followed by ice.... 

If you're shown a selection of knives beforehand....

Even knowing it's a plastic blade... its still exquisite.

 

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1 minute ago, LazyPiratesBounty said:

Is it really worth the risk?

For a top quality domme experience? Sure!

 

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Hm, you're blindfolded.... plastic knife drawn across your skin followed by ice....

I don't think being blindfolded is going to prevent me escaping.  There needs to be a handicap of sorts...

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2 hours ago, Dreamaway said:

A Taser or Chloroform.. you must be slightly deranged to even consider these types of ***. You could end up with a body on your hands. Both are extremely dangerous in the wrong hands and have no place in any scene. Filmwork may be but again, it would be acting, certainly not the real thing.

@BlushingFlush Well I would be the body in that situation so not like I'm imposing it on anyone else. Besides police use tasers all the time and it's not like I have a heart condition.

This is deranged and dangerous. There would be a stiff on the scene, and not the sort of stiff that was intended. No responsible Dom/me would do it. 

It's not like you have a heart condition? How do you know? There's a gent in the US right now, who is feeling very discomfited because he's having to endure a very determined attempt to have his wife's death reopened as a cold case. The husband is being accused of her *** - even though he was in another part of the country at the time, and the autopsy revealed that his wife had an undiagnosed heart condition. She never knew, he never knew.  So not only did he lose the wife he loved, he's now having to endure a very public and nasty accusation all these years later.  Filmwork would be acting and would be done with props. It's illusory and fantasy. Real life is another bucket of bream altogether.

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17 minutes ago, BlushingFlush said:

For a top quality domme experience? Sure!

 

I don't think being blindfolded is going to prevent me escaping.  There needs to be a handicap of sorts...

Lemme get this straight...

You'd risk dying, risk putting someone through that so you can experience something inherently dangerous?

 

A handicap... chop your foot off? That'd be a handicap.

 

Prevented from escaping.... straitjacket?

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3 minutes ago, Vandalslut said:

This is deranged and dangerous. There would be a stiff on the scene, and not the sort of stiff that was intended. No responsible Dom/me would do it.

I don't know what a stiff is but I seriously doubt there would be a corpse from an electric taser. If it was that likely, they wouldn't even give police tasers in the first place.

 

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It's not like you have a heart condition? How do you know?

Young, physically fit, eat well, have already done plenty of things not suitable for people with heart conditions, etc., etc.

Anyway, if you're not going to live your life in case you suffer a heart attack, are you not going to drive (e.g. if the car in front of you grinds to a halt and you've got to break, you could trigger a heart attack), are you not going to try out skiing, never watch a horror movie, etc., etc.

 

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Filmwork would be acting and would be done with props. It's illusory and fantasy. Real life is another bucket of bream altogether.

Pretty sure there's things they do for real in certain pornos. In fact I'd wager they're more likely to do it for real than fake it most of the time because that way it's more exciting.

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12 minutes ago, LazyPiratesBounty said:

Lemme get this straight...

You'd risk dying, risk putting someone through that so you can experience something inherently dangerous?

Sounds exciting, right?

 

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A handicap... chop your foot off? That'd be a handicap.

 

Prevented from escaping.... straitjacket?

Well a straight jacket I would have to already submitted so no fun there. I did think of something though - what if the room was booby trapped with trip wires and the like? Then I get tangled up so badly I have to crawl to get out at which point the Domme enters the room and gives me a shot of viagra and maybe some choloform for good measure. Now that could work.

Edited June 9, 2020 by Deleted Member

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43 minutes ago, BlushingFlush said:

Sounds exciting, right?

Not to me, no. It sounds totally insane tbh.

 

44 minutes ago, BlushingFlush said:

Well a straight jacket I would have to already submitted so no fun there. I did think of something though - what if the room was booby trapped with trip wires and the like? Then I get tangled up so badly I have to crawl to get out at which point the Domme enters the room and gives me a shot of viagra and maybe some choloform for good measure. Now that could work.

Viagra AND chloroform?

 

 

Btw, people have been killed by tasers.

And they don't just give them to the police, there's training involved.

You could always try a cattle prod.