Ky**** Posted June 11, 2020 Posted June 11, 2020 6 minutes ago, Cade said: Haha, totally agree. But if you're not use to dominants correcting you, you might be sorely surprised when you come across one that does! with the emphasis on sorely, but only if you're lucky
Si**** Posted June 11, 2020 Posted June 11, 2020 I'm afraid this simply comes down to entitlement ma'am and is a disease unfortunately inherent in many of the male homo sapiens alive today. These are to same people who go out on a saturday night expecting to get laid, the same people who go right to the end of the traffic line and cut in front of everyone. Personally, I would have blocked them at "read my profile."
TemptressM Posted June 11, 2020 Author Posted June 11, 2020 I came on this morning actually to some lovely messages and some really taking there time to actually chat. The person in question is now a deleted member lol. It was more a vent when I posted this and annoyed that he blocked me rather than taking 30 seconds to actually talk. Curiouswitch, I will relook my profile and maybe change the wording on it to make it more understandable, I never thought it would come across that way, but you are right. Thanks for the reply's everyone.
Re**** Posted June 11, 2020 Posted June 11, 2020 Because the world is full of assholez who hate rejection
Qu**** Posted June 12, 2020 Posted June 12, 2020 My messages are more along the lines of what they want from me. I think it’s the other way way round 😂. I tell them to read my profile and when they come back and say they have but still ask to be my sub/ slave or whatever then they get annoyed for some reason when I tell them I’m not interested. I’m very polite but a rejection is a rejection however you say it. Your first message to anyone be it Dom/Domme or sub should always be more than hi, hey, or a comment on your body parts. Why should I make the effort to converse with you if you can’t make an effort with a first contact message? You never get a second chance to make a first impression
ey**** Posted June 12, 2020 Posted June 12, 2020 on another website I have a profile for my clip store - and every few days I will get a message from a guy who hasn't read the profile (which states it's run by me) offering to serve (I'm actually not sure *who* he wants to serve, given the profile picture is 4 different Dominants, but OK) So, I'll state "OK, here's the link to my store" and I think the cheapest clip is $3.99 And then there'll be some pleasing or begging for another task. And, like, why, you failed the very first one miserably. And arguably the second. (the first would be to actually read the profile)
Ky**** Posted June 12, 2020 Posted June 12, 2020 I don't know, all this is a problem for us Bimbos, and presumably himbos as well, I mean asking a bimbo to read something other than a celebrity gossip mag are you trying to get us chucked out of the bimbo club-just how does a bimbo/himbo find a dominant if they actually have to read lol
Deleted Member Posted June 14, 2020 Posted June 14, 2020 I think thats a general problem for women in general. We get called a prude if we don’t put out, a slut if we put out too much, lazy if we don’t want to do something, etc. Maybe they are just being straightforward of what they want? I feels disingenuous. And if they’re a sub, they shouldn’t be directing you to do anything. Maybe if they ask politely, if would’ve been different. 
TokinSmurf Posted December 22, 2020 Posted December 22, 2020 It’s a multitude of sociological and personal problems that can’t really be summed up in a fe short words. The quickest I can say it...lots of dumb ones out for a quick fap, and don’t know what they’re looking for, that’s probably the majority of them. And maybe 10% are sincere, maybe some of those don’t know how to talk or make an impressionable introduction...It’s not easy to meet that perfect for any of us really, it’s quite a struggle on both sides
TokinSmurf Posted December 22, 2020 Posted December 22, 2020 It’s a multitude of sociological and personal problems that can’t really be summed up in a fe short words. The quickest I can say it...lots of dumb ones out for a quick fap, and don’t know what they’re looking for, that’s probably the majority of them. And maybe 10% are sincere, maybe some of those don’t know how to talk or make an impressionable introduction...It’s not easy to meet that perfect for any of us really, it’s quite a struggle on both sides
TokinSmurf Posted December 22, 2020 Posted December 22, 2020 It’s a multitude of sociological and personal problems that can’t really be summed up in a fe short words. The quickest I can say it...lots of dumb ones out for a quick fap, and don’t know what they’re looking for, that’s probably the majority of them. And maybe 10% are sincere, maybe some of those don’t know how to talk or make an impressionable introduction...It’s not easy to meet that perfect for any of us really, it’s quite a struggle on both sides
forbedding Posted December 27, 2020 Posted December 27, 2020 This is an issue I see a lot of women talking about, unfortunately. Dommes and subs. It's no reflection on you at all, so please don't take that kind of thing to heart. Easier said than done, of course, but it speaks far more loudly about who they are, than who you are. Male entitlement is a nasty pervasive issue, and I think the best thing for us all to do is call it out when we encounter it. Sorry that happened to you, though.
Subystantial Posted December 27, 2020 Posted December 27, 2020 Hello all. I'm new this site and the scene in general and have been watching and reading a lot of YouTube guides and books about the scene and how I might better my chances of meeting a dominant woman. The issue TemptressM has raised has come up time and time again with nearly all of the dommes I've been listening to or reading about. Most express their frustration at being sent dick pic's or instant proposals to be their slave and this is understandable. I don't know if this forum has sticky topics but I'm curious to know if the dommes here would be interested in creating some sort of an introductions etiquette guide that they could point potential subs to, this might hopefully ease your shared frustrations and cultivate a more respectful and enjoyable communications environment for you all. Hang in there TemptressM you're not a bad person.
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