Cade Posted July 15, 2020 Posted July 15, 2020 (edited) Indeed, she obeys me. If I tell her to do something, no matter how unusual, I have no doubt she will do it to the best of her ability. Whenever I grew thirsty or hungry, she happily fetches me food and drink; when I am aroused, she proudly presents her flesh to satisfy my urges - be they pleasurable or ***ful to her, she voices no protest. I expect her to represent me with respect always, and with a mere glance, she knows if I'm pleased with her or disappointed. In the latter, she trusts me to correct her so that she can fulfill her desire to serve me ever better. When she wants or needs a particular interaction from me, I trust her to communicate that confident in my patience, ability, and understanding of dominion over her, completely. This describes my slave: an individual with a submissive mentality trained to serve me as my personal property. From an outside perspective, I'm sure it all appears so simple and easy for us - I say, she does. Due to the nature of our dynamic, she sees no point in acting out or misbehaving for a particular form of attention, she knows manipulation and instigation will not accomplish her desired goals with me. Certainly, no one would confuse her for a "brat", as she simply has no use for bratty behavior in the submissive lifestyle she desires. Submissives of this nature are commonly seen as weak, perceived as putting up no challenge, and even dismissed as inferior or as "doormats", easily walked all over by anyone. You know what else looks easy from the spectator seats? Tiger Taming. You might see one person in a large cage with multiple dangerous tigers, and with a simple command or crack of the whip, those ferocious beasts may preform unbelievable acts! The trainer may appear as if it's all so effortless, simply bossing around ***s that outweigh them by a couple hundred pounds, have claws and teeth capable of tearing through flesh as if it were paper, and significantly faster and stronger than even the most gifted human. With a mere word from that fragile human though, we might see those beautifully frightening tigers balance on pedistals, dance among each other in carefully synchronized choreography, even go against their very nature and leap through fire! But is it all as easy as that? No...oh, hell no. More like, "Holy fuck, are you insane" NO! No person in their right mind would enter that cage with an ambush of tigers they aren't familiar and didn't tame. Because no matter how much training, tigers still remain the same fierce creatures they are naturally - and this is a reason they are so gracefully majestic. The same can be said of the submissive. They accept training to be shaped into what their dominant desires of them. They learn and memorize protocol that guides their decisions even despite what they may desire contrary. They participate in rituals and activities that might hurt or embarrass them, but do they run away scared? No, they just keep coming back for more to please their dominant! This might all take years of intensive behavior modification - not easy at all and not at all for the weak. They do this because they dedicate themselves to an individual they find worthy of such devotion; the arduous hunt we can all relate to. Obviously, I can't speak for all submissives. However, I can confidentially say that being a submissive doesn't mean a person is weak, and without a doubt in my mind, some of the strongest individuals I have ever had the good fortune to know were slaves. They earned that role and take great confidence from the experiences they gained in that role. They are sure of themselves, finding security in their identity. They know their behavior doesn't only represent themselves, but also represent someone they love, respect, and honor; most would accept being punished over disappointing their owner and knowingly accept the consequences for their actions. Sure, my slave may look like a doormat to you. My feet are often on her, I do enjoy stepping on her, and yes, her mantra is "His will, my desire". But don't *you* dare underestimate her: if you try walking over her you may find out how the late Roy Horn, formally of Siegfried and Roy, felt during his 2003 mauling which severed his spine, drained his ***, and caused him other injuries that permanently impaired his motor and verbal abilities - effectively ending the show that ran for over a decade. I have no doubt my slave would tear your dominance to ribbons if you crawled into her cage unwelcomed. Edited July 15, 2020 by Cade
Deleted Member Posted July 15, 2020 Posted July 15, 2020 As always Cade, you make a fascinating point about the art of submission. if i may. surely the fire within the submissive makes the selective submission to an individual that much sweeter?
Leisa Posted July 15, 2020 Posted July 15, 2020 This is amazingly wonderful. I could not have put it better myself. I know your submissive slave thorough out community and would dare anyone to call her a doormat. Kitty was strong enough to know what she wanted and went after it. She's one of the strongest people I know. While your position as her owner is different than the next dynamic it makes others of us no less slaves. To @Thebian I am his and he owns me heart, mind, and body. I am what most would consider a part-time slave in that we do not live together however we maintain the lifestyle as owner/submissive slave. I have an ongoing commitment to an owner/submissive slave relationship and regard myself as his at all times and not just during play. I strive to obey and please him in all aspects of my life. Even when I have other commitments such as work and *** I devote all my free time to him and he always has first pick of how it is spent. Did I ever think I would consider myself as another person's property? No but here I am and I'm happy to be here. In addition to having an owner, I still maintain my self-worth and it is completely consensual. Unlike some owners I am still allowed and encouraged to keep my brat personality and do not have to ask permission to speak to others and am allowed to hold my own ground during conversations/conversations. It is only when he tells me to stop posting something in the lobby discussions that I stop. Yesterday was the perfect example. Someone was in the lobby being disrespectful to myself and other submissives who identify as brats. I was told to stand down by him and did so until he too was unable to get the gentleman to see reason at which time I asked permission and such was granted to stand up for not only myself but others as well. It was done respectfully and with my position as his submissive being a reflection of him in the forefront of my mind. It is only with his permission that I am given freewill to decide how and what is deemed appropriate in different aspects of my life. Anyone who knows me knows that I am definitely not a doormat nor would I allow anyone to tell me that I was.
Cade Posted July 15, 2020 Author Posted July 15, 2020 (edited) @little_red_92 I use to live in a fairly rural area in West Virginia, and at least once a season, we would go blackberry picking. Now, if you don't know much about blackberries, they grow in a thicket bush. This made the blackberries on the outside really easy to get - for human or ***. If you got deeper into the ***ful thorn vines, you found larger, mouth-watering blackberries. So, to sum it all up: The more challenging the berry, the sweeter the juice! Haha. Edited July 15, 2020 by Cade
Deleted Member Posted July 15, 2020 Posted July 15, 2020 11 hours ago, Cade said: Submissives of this nature are commonly seen as weak, perceived as putting up no challenge, and even dismissed as inferior or as "doormats", easily walked all over by anyone. A great post as always and I have used that word "doormat" I will think on before I ever use it again. I can assure you however that it was not meant to describe anything even close to the dynamics/relationships you live 😊
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