Running out of ideas! Help please! X

[DomTay]

Hi everyone

I’ve dabbled with BDSM for a few years on and off.   I now have a sub who I regularly take to my local dungeon.  He’s into being humiliated(to a certain extent). Spanking, being tied up,  Spit on, worshipping me, CBT, Candle wax play amongst other things. The problem is I am running out of things to do to him, I just seem to do the same things every week.   He’s not into anything too extreme , no watersports,  no medical play or anything like that.

Any suggestions much appreciated.

Thanks

Tay xx

[Markus911]

Take a shit on him

[Ea****]

Chasity

[Deleted Member]

Hello Tay have you tried nipple clamps, spiked wheels,electro wand ,needles in the skin of his balls.Stinging nettles ( gloves needed here for you) Ice in vital places is cheap and cheerful.Also a change of location can make things exciting, if you drive put him in the boot of your car lol hope this may help x

[Kenny913]

Make him lick your high heels whip him and strapon play

[to****]

Take him out ‘in public’ to certain places that will push his vulnerabilty.
I do it the other way round to females but nothing on from waist down is always good at a drive through 😂

[Deleted Member]

Sensory deprivation? Sounds soft but can be intense. It's amazing how *** sluts can handle a beating but not light teasing with ice or a feather. Tie him up and blindfold him. You might surprise him when he can't see and brace himself how different things feel. Maybe try knife play, be careful of course. Perhaps stick a butter knife in the freezer and try it on him? 

[fartboy30]

Try farting in his face, it does it for me

[Tinypaws]

Use him as a footstool, end table, drink holder. If he doesn't mind things in his ass, position him ass up and put some flowers in there(vase!). You can always ask him if there is something he would like to try. Sometimes subs can be nervous about asking for something they would like done to them.

[an****]

Face sitting, chastity. Put it in a cage under lock and key for a bit. Canning. Leash and collar as you walk him around the house. Write humiliating things all over him. Ropes and wax play. Plastic wrap. Orgasm denial (should both enjoy that one) let us know if any of the suggestions work. Important thing is to have fun searching for the answers.😘

[Paddywack-3112]

Old English school boy ***.
Short pants and shirt
Stand in corner and stupid hat

Hands on head looking at corner
Wooden spoon
Caine's, writing lines , wrist spanks

[Shellshock]

Just sound to be a very lucky sub to me

[ey****]

do you need to keep coming up with new ideas?

does he have any requests?

[foxfun2015]

You could try electric play

[bi****]

my advice is to start thinking what you like, and get doing more of that. Alternatively, watch some femdom porn for ideas of the things you like the look of. And a 3rd option: interrogation, get him naked, distracted, ask awkward questions about his preferences and likes especially the ones he doesn't want to admit to. He'll probably give you some ideas around those replies. But don't vary things too much - spread them out over a long time.

[Phoenyx]

Does he have a taste for leather or rubber?  You mentioned that he liked being tied-up.  Have you considered, say, leather bondage?  This could be a simple as a set of cuffs, to more elaborate items, like bondage mittens, armbinders, hoods, etc, etc, etc...  Some of the cuff combinations look quite sinister and intriguing.  An internet search for "chastity shorts", brings-up some interesting possibilities  Maybe, he might enjoy the tight restriction of a leather corset.  Or, being ***d to wear high-heeled boots, during your sessions.  If rubber or latex is preferred, most of these items come in those materials, as well.

Of course, all of this does run into ***.  But, it is a thought.

[DomTay]

11 hours ago, foxfun2015 said:

You could try electric play

He’s not into electric play :(

[DomTay]

Yesterday at 07:09 PM, Markus911 said:

Take a shit on him

He’s Not into that at all

[DomTay]

13 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

do you need to keep coming up with new ideas?

does he have any requests?

No ... I just feel as though I want to change it up a bit.. just add a few more things into our session

[bi****]

"He’s not into electric play :( "... that's what he thinks, mouhahahahahahaaaaaa.