First time switching

[Dot-6074]

How do I prepare myself mentally to switch from submissive to the dominant role? I've always been submissive and now my Dom wants to switch and try different things.  Including pegging, him submitting, calling me Momma, etc. I'm worried it may be a little to much for me.  As I have never been into pegging. 

[XNXlvr]

I’m kinda thinking about switching too don’t even know what to think about it you should hmu tho?

[kevinlad]

To start you need to set your mind, to what you want to do, which you have (true yes?) you need to understand what your master was doing when you were sub, name calling is what give you pleasure, it its a fantasies and desire which will give you drive and kick, of your kinkiness.

[ey****]

So, if he has in mind what he wants you to do - is it really switching?    

He's still wanting to dictate the run of play.

Which, I dunno if this helps - that you're still submitting, but in this case your submission is being a service top to him.    But still, if you don't want to peg him - you can still say no.  

[Deleted Member]

Are either of you giving thought to your boundaries? He may have ideas about what he would enjoy - he can voice those as can you. But if you don’t want to peg him, if you don’t want to be called Momma - you don’t have to agree. You’re a submissive but that doesn’t mean you’re a doormat for his needs.

[Deleted Member]

If you are not a natural switch, it will probably be quite difficult I would imagine