24/7 Dom/sub help please!

[illusenfaerie]

My partner and I are trying to start a 24/7 Dom/sub relationship. We have talked about it a lot, but I seem to be really struggling with the idea behind it. How does one get into a sub mindset? I understand that each relationship and the people involved are different, but I am completely new to all of this. If you have any tips or things you would want to tell someone just starting out, please let me know! 

[ey****]

Particularly if this is a new idea it can be difficult

does it have to be 24/7 straight away?  Can it be tried for an hour or two?  As a taster?  You can probably then refine from there if this is going to work. 

[slutpuppy99]

as a sub, you should be content serving your Dom.

make him breakfast, get his coffee, it can start with little things. it doesnt have to be much different than your current relationship.

when you bring him food/drink. get on your knees and tell him how happy/pleased you are to serve him.

or when going to grab or do something for your self, ask your dom if he would like any.

[Deleted Member]

As already said maybe baby steps. Going from zero to 24/7 overnight sounds like way too much way too soon, can be overwhelming and a little unhealthy. The mindset in some way for me should be part of your natural state and if ***d, is not part of who you really are.That in itself maybe is something to be thinking about, mulling over.

[au****]

24/7 honey tell your man to pump the breaks listen if your second-guessing yourself and asking questions already about it and you're not ready Don't *** It Don't Push It baby steps and don't let nobody push you into something your not ready for that could change your outlook on the lifestyle

[Deleted Member]

24/7 Ds is not for everyone and to be fair if neither of you know what is involved or want to be involved then your moving too fast. Each and every dynamic is different but you need to understand the basics. You both need to understand what you both want from it is it service based , protocol , sexual service the list goes on. One thing that it needs to be is natural it needs to flow you can’t *** it you need to both know what responsibilities you are taking on or offering that is both ways and don’t try and take on full control in either direction you need to play to strengths your Dom can’t do it all no matter how much he thinks he can I’m currently in a 24/7 and I have been in 24/7 Ms it’s hard . Good luck

[Koby]

A D/s relationship is similar to a Vanilla in this sense, as it takes time to grow and develop.

When  you wear new shoes sometimes you walk around with them on,  so your tootsies can adjust to the shape/design of the shoes.

The structure of relationship needs to time to cultivate, this may include developing protocols and rules. Avoid putting the cart before the horse. Build solid foundations, develop your structure and than elevate your relationship.