How do you know what's to far

[WoodyJohnson]

Am new to this I know I like to be dominated if I met someone dominate I wouldn't want to say no to anything they told me to do so how do you decide what's to far

[ey****]

Not wanting to say 'no' is a weakness, not a strength.

There's a difference between wanting to please somebody and doing this at any cost because you communicate poorly.

'Too far' is different for different people.  If someone asks you to do something you're uncomfortable with or unable to do, then contextually that could be too far.

[Wo****]

Limits give you a framework to work from.

They can change with trust, communication and time.

Part of the thrill of a "No limit" dynamic, for me at least, is the fact it's something that develops.

I'm exploring my dominant side, my submissive side has very few limits, I'd avoid anyone, do avoid, anyone who states they'll do "anything" it signifies uncertainty to me.

 

How far is too far? Not setting boundaries. I'm chatting to someone atm who I think is going to push a few of my boundaries. He knows where my limits are, we've dismissed (or rather put on hold) a couple of things until we're further into any dynamic.

 

It's a red flag for me, no limits from the outset. It has to be worked towards.

[highlandlass54]

Work out for yourself what you like and don’t like, don’t go in thinking I can’t say no. Don’t forget there are safe words if you don’t want to continue in a scene!!