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How do I become a good submissive switch?


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I know the feeling. I have a urge to be domaint but with some men i feel the urge to be submissive.

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Some people who are switches find it difficult to move between roles.   There isn't a magic way to suddenly change your mindset.

It can be a case of thinking, do you want to go back to being in a role of being submissive?  Why? Why not?  It might be your struggles being that you are not really wanting to do this

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I think it would help you focus on the pleasing part. If she's a Domme, then the way to please her is to give her control over you. Maybe it'll ease you to think of your submission as "trying to please the one I love", do it as an act of love and trust.

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Trying to give control. Depends on how your current Dom is aswell. If you don't feel you can submit to him. Then maybe it's that.

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Ooo I like puzzles 🤗..... But serious note if struggling to play a switch role I think best to do is seek out a dominating release. Not another partner may be a role in life in witch you can vent. Keeping the submisive role for your partner, But expressing dom/domme nature in another outlet.
Keep life in balance

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