guys or girls?

July 24, 2022

I don’t personally have a preference as such, however if a girl messages me first then I feel appreciated and feel that she at least has some form of interest.

July 24, 2022

In my opinion. I think it’s ok for woman to message men. They already get millions of messages a day that they aren’t able to respond to. They can reach out

July 25, 2022

Now a days,,I really don’t think it matters..the guy should make the dirt move ,,but there r women that make that first move fast..but n the end,does it really matter……..

July 25, 2022

Depends on the relationship dynamic. I am a Dom so I want to establish that leadership role immediately.

August 1, 2022

Very rare I message women and very rare women message. If it's someone that has really peaked my interest, I'll take a chance. I'm very switchy so I like a woman that knows how to hit send

August 1, 2022

Some sites I wait for the girls but I do send messages

September 6, 2022

Honestly I prefer if someone messages me first. Shows that they're interested in me. I'm not against sending the first message though.

September 10, 2022

Men should write first.

September 26, 2022

This still a real discussion? Just message him.

October 2, 2022

Life is too short! If you read a profile or see a pic you like, send a message. It’s not a marriage proposal. “It’s just a damn message for crying out loud!” Men love assertive women. Even if they say they don’t. That’s just an automatic macho defense mechanism because most men don’t like to be perceived as weak with women. But deep down, men love to receive first messages from women. So just send a message, you’ll feel better.