TimtheMerciless Posted June 24 Posted June 24 On 6/22/2024 at 2:43 PM, MsMaple said: I'm kinda new to being a domme. My boy has been into *** for a long time. I really love him so much and aftercare is such an important step in order for me to reassure him that I really do love him. I know that subspace is a thing. Any tips on how to get into a domme space? I do not know if it works for everybody but if you are not feelings dominant to begin with , then start with tender and loving and perhaps use rope. You might find the tenderness, closeness and then the restriction of your partner opens up in you the aspect to tenderness where you are enjoying your ability to control the duration and tone of the moments of contact with your partner. I think that perhaps that is really what BDSM is really about. The simplest advice I've ever had is remember to be in a mindset of playfulness.
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