Advice

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has he told you that you let him down??

i just read your profile and it seems that you have the wrong person with you. I don’t mean to be offensive but looks like he make some serious trigger mistake with you and it might damaging for you soon. 
I think you already post your struggle with that person so maybe you should rethink that dynamic or relationship with him?

 

Edited February 28, 2021 by Deleted Member

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Like a lot of people are saying red flag. You are going to over analyse at first. My sub has to write a journal every day, and it was days before I could see the shift in her being more open. Great relationships develop. I would reach out to other subs (mine is on here) to find support.

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2 hours ago, FabSeverus said:

has he told you that you let him down??

i just read your profile and it seems that you have the wrong person with you. I don’t mean to be offensive but looks like he make some serious trigger mistake with you and it might damaging for you soon. 
I think you already post your struggle with that person so maybe you should rethink that dynamic or relationship with him?

 

Hi there and he did three days into the dynamic. He was training me but I cut it off yesterday

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1 hour ago, Drseventy6 said:

Like a lot of people are saying red flag. You are going to over analyse at first. My sub has to write a journal every day, and it was days before I could see the shift in her being more open. Great relationships develop. I would reach out to other subs (mine is on here) to find support.

I eventually did break it off with him yesterday since everyone was saying red flag. It’s just so inexperienced that I thought it was normal

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That’s good. If multiple people are saying the same thing, it is wise to listen. It’s hard to find a Dom who truly knows what they are doing and are able to correctly develop a good sub. And while a sub is submissive it isn’t to everyone. A sub is very powerful. He/she isn’t some powerless thing. It’s an exchange, you have your power until you choose to give it to Sir/Ma’am.