Men who refuse to comprehend that I am not here to get them off by discussing/obeying their every whim

[Leisa]

Hi Maso. It’s not just those who are new to the site that this happens to. I stopped using the site to find a Dom last year when the only messages I was getting were that type. I had a fake Dom who I was talking to who quickly showed his true colors in the lobby so I called him out in the lobby. It was incredibly freeing to let others know what type of person. It’s just unfortunate that he’s still in there preying on younger subs. Then I met a true Dom who, although it didn’t work out, showed me that there are still decent Doms on this site even though I don’t use the site for that purpose. Raise your filters and remind yourself that before you are a sub you are a person who deserves respect. Raise your filters to reflect exactly what you’re looking for, report those who think it’s ok to treat humans that way, and block them. You will find what you are looking for if you’re willing to wait it out. Best of luck.

[so****]

I totally get you, I  have left other sites because of that exact issue.   I've come to the conclusion that some men feel it is their right as men to demand sex, that somehow women "owe" them sex.  However, this is not the case and they simply cannot take rejection and immediately return to playground behaviour because they can't get their way.  I actually had one guy ask for photos so he could at least have a wank after I'd turned him down.  I told him there's an internet full of photos to search through and that I'm sure Mr Google could help him.  I'm sorry you feel how you do, I know we sometimes have to kiss a few frogs before we find a prince, but I didn't expect a swamp full of toads!

 

Good luck in finding what you are looking for x

[Deleted Member]

Sunday at 09:45 PM, Soulstealer said:

I totally get you, I  have left other sites because of that exact issue.   I've come to the conclusion that some men feel it is their right as men to demand sex, that somehow women "owe" them sex.  However, this is not the case and they simply cannot take rejection and immediately return to playground behaviour because they can't get their way.  I actually had one guy ask for photos so he could at least have a wank after I'd turned him down.  I told him there's an internet full of photos to search through and that I'm sure Mr Google could help him.  I'm sorry you feel how you do, I know we sometimes have to kiss a few frogs before we find a prince, but I didn't expect a swamp full of toads!

 

Good luck in finding what you are looking for x

That’s an interesting byline for Fetish: a swamp full of toads! 🤣

[Deleted Member]

As a man there is no easy way to have this conversation with any woman, especially online.

Why? Because you will reject the facts and the truth no matter how well present or constructed, because you don't want to hear it.

The men you see today that you complain about?
Women created that beast.

Want to understand?
YouTube 'Kevin Samuels' and spend more than 5 minutes watching some quality explanations as to why you are seeing what you are seeing.

And for the record I don't personally subscribe to the behaviour you talk about.

That said my personal experience is women are no better in their behaviour.

Kevin Samuels' has many hours of content that if you truly want to understand the problem in society and interactivity of men and women today, that I couldn't do justice In a forum post.

And before I hit the post button I already know the volume of snowflakes about to hate on me.
I actually don't care, you are not my problem or somone I would ever entertain because you are exactly what's wrong with male/female interaction and you have zero interest in making a better world, you just want to bitch and moan about a situation of your own making.

[kerri_kamden]

On 3/12/2021 at 5:18 PM, masokitty said:

I really am beginning to seeth with anger at the amount of men on this here app who think simply because a woman is present she is seeking to fulfill all his fantasies, submit to him instantly with just a single message or go through an interrogation in which you can tell the end result is them getting off on the other end... without your explicit consent for the conversation to even go that direction... also the amount of men who I decline to speak to that end up visiting my profile 15 times a day 🙃.. this is beginning to feel like extreme tinder.. its sad that I don't feel I can come here and engage in genuine discussion with like-minded individuals without the constant onslaught of "horny" internet twerps looking for their next pornhub type chat... respect the wishes of others there are many on the app interested in what YOU are looking for, don't go hunting for people to try and coerce into giving you what you want. Its gross. 

This isn’t just the case for biological women. I’m a CD top and the amount of men who will literally refuse to believe that people such as me exist is mind boggling 🙄 

[Jashine]

A lot of nonsense is being spoken about this site being a 'safe space' etc, when the reality is it's a public kink dating site which, through its marketing, attracts a lot of horny cockwombles. The trick is not to take things personally: if you do, an online kink dating site is probably not for you. Best to make use of the message filters available and accept that you cannot avoid some instances of dickishness.

[Deleted Member]

16 hours ago, Tiny___D said:

As a man there is no easy way to have this conversation with any woman, especially online.

Why? Because you will reject the facts and the truth no matter how well present or constructed, because you don't want to hear it.

The men you see today that you complain about?
Women created that beast.

Want to understand?
YouTube 'Kevin Samuels' and spend more than 5 minutes watching some quality explanations as to why you are seeing what you are seeing.

And for the record I don't personally subscribe to the behaviour you talk about.

That said my personal experience is women are no better in their behaviour.

Kevin Samuels' has many hours of content that if you truly want to understand the problem in society and interactivity of men and women today, that I couldn't do justice In a forum post.

And before I hit the post button I already know the volume of snowflakes about to hate on me.
I actually don't care, you are not my problem or somone I would ever entertain because you are exactly what's wrong with male/female interaction and you have zero interest in making a better world, you just want to bitch and moan about a situation of your own making.

I'm not gonna hate on you but I've been laughing sadly for a whole ass minute that someone on this forum looks up to him.
Making a pre-emptive attack against people that will disagree with or in my case, laugh at, your words just come across so Edgelord.

[so****]

At the end of the day it's only an opinion, opinions can be subjective and thoughts are not fact. I looked him up, this guy in my opinion has misogynistic and Victorian values when it comes to women. Basically one of those "Doms" if you know what I mean. After all is said and done, it was a woman who brought you into the world, taught you how to walk and use a spoon.