Advice on being a slave

[Us****]

Does anyone have some advice on how to be a good slave? My master and I are really into hard stuff, so only hardcore advice.

[Deleted Member]

Give us a topic from the list if things you want advice on .
How hard ?
*** , knives, needles, r@pe etc etc

[ey****]

"good slave" is subjective and depends on the expectancy of your Dominant.    So your first step is to ask them what their expectancies of you are.

This otherwise sounds like fishing for wank fodder rather than actual help

[Wo****]

13 hours ago, SluttyTwink said:

Does anyone have some advice on how to be a good slave? My master and I are really into hard stuff, so only hardcore advice.

Tell them your hard limits then obey their every command. 

[Deleted Member]

What did you talk about before starting an M / s. These are typical issues that are discussed in advance and not in the middle of an M / s. My advice would be to communicate openly, honestly and transparently with each other

[ol****]

All good advice,

Nothing to add really, it's like any other form of D/s. Your dynamic will be your dynamic.

[Deleted Member]

Master slave questions? Hm that kind of dynamic involved experience and knowledge so maybe you should go back to basics....
I would have thought your master got years of experience??

[Deleted Member]

I was a slave to my wife for 20 years, as you can imagine, circumstances changed over the years, *** came along, her lovers came and went and they had different needs to be met, we changed jobs, had different working hours etc.

My wife and I came up with a mechanism for allowing us to communicate about problems we faced without interfering in the day to day FLR routine. We used to send each other an email each weekend where we could outline any issues we had with the relationship without causing upset or punishment. It was a safe zone. It was also easier to communicate like that when we had kids about and we had limited time for our kink. As the kids got older they went to bed later and later which meant we had less quality adult time together, so rather than wasting that discussing issues, we could type up our issues during the day without the kids potentially overhearing our discussions.

I could express my concerns about things and my wife would listen and sometimes she would adjust routine's or schedules or chores etc to keep the relationship ticking along nicely. She would use it to test the waters with me about things she wanted to try or how I felt about her new lover etc. It worked well and the relationship evolved over time and small adjustments were made to take into account changing circumstance.

[Us****]

March 17, FabSeverus said:

Master slave questions? Hm that kind of dynamic involved experience and knowledge so maybe you should go back to basics....
I would have thought your master got years of experience??

He doesn't, he's not a pro with hundreds of slaves in the past. He's about my age.