Deleted Member Posted March 20, 2021 Author Posted March 20, 2021 8 hours ago, FabSeverus said: During lockdown people don’t have any excuses it should be perfectly clean and tidy 😂. You do realise lots of people are working through a lockdown with kids to home school? I’ve never been busier
Deleted Member Posted March 20, 2021 Author Posted March 20, 2021 28 minutes ago, Curvykate said: You do realise lots of people are working through a lockdown with kids to home school? I’ve never been busier Poor you... need a de-stresser😈?
Deleted Member Posted March 20, 2021 Author Posted March 20, 2021 49 minutes ago, FabSeverus said: Poor you... need a de-stresser😈? 😁 I’m covered, but thank you 🤗
Deleted Member Posted March 24, 2021 Author Posted March 24, 2021 I’ve been told Fifty Shades is borderline ***. As a woman, I’d love a man who wears a suit by day(something about that tie), and casual by night. Does he have to be wealthy? No. If he can tune into what a woman wants and needs, that’s a start. There has to be a connection, though. I get clean and orderly. You know what you don’t and do want. But at the same time, if you meet, you may not care about it after all.
Deleted Member Posted March 25, 2021 Author Posted March 25, 2021 (edited) While I'm not a CEO of a big corp, I have been in very senior role and was relatively wealthy in UK terms. I have experienced many conversations with woman that enjoyed the benefits of the *** and status including my ex-wife. Some are simply findoms or scammers but there have been many genuine females that do indeed get a kick from it. In some cases it was almost a deep need in them. I guess historically it was the case that a woman wanted a man that could provide financial security for herself and the ***. In some cases this grows into an extreme fetish? Rather perversely in my private life I prefer to be submissive, even a slave. My day job involved so much responsibility and I was constantly faced with critical decisions and stress that once at home I was/am happiest when I have no control at all. I am not joking when I say I am happier cleaning a bathroom than I am doing my day job. The *** means little to me other than allowing us to live in a nice home in a nice area. I was quite happy to let my wife make all household decisions and control the finances. She got a thrill from having that power and I was thrilled to shed all responsibility beyond doing my household chores to a satisfactory standard. Worked for 20 years! I quit my job a decade ago and got a less stressful job. Still high rate taxpayers so not like we were poor but relationship began to crumble. She was in love with my job not me! Edited March 25, 2021 by Deleted Member
Deleted Member Posted March 25, 2021 Author Posted March 25, 2021 Thinking about this, for my wife it was not so much the *** but rather the status and the perks. I was the most senior non executive employee and the perks included spending weeks on my bosses yacht in the med, VIP access to London theatre and events, going for weekend 'meetings' in exclusive country manor hotels where the wives/partners got VIP spa access, meeting celebs, eating in finest restaurants in London, having access to company helicopter etc, etc. Even a decent salary can not get some of these things, they are achieved via networking and contacts. That is what she got sexually attracted to. I never gave two hoots for any of it, preferring to live in a modest cottage and drive a classic car. I honestly get more enjoyment from preparing and cooking my own food than wasting *** on a restaurant meal where you pay £100 for a 1" cube of fillet steak.... :-)
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