Where can one find a nice Sub?

[Jazzy-3274]

So a little over a year ago I was introduced to this world of bdsm..my mind was blown. I've always been an independent woman...I like to take control of situations and leadership has always come naturally to me. In all aspects of my life, I was completely satisfied...with the exception of my personal life. So when my now ex introduced me to bdsm and female domination, I was hooked. 

For me it has to be both in and out of the bedroom...in all aspects of life...But that relationship is over now (he passed away), and I'm afraid I'll never find that sort of whole package again...Are there dating sites for this sort of thing? 

 

[FETMOD-KF]

On 4/27/2021 at 5:23 PM, Jazzy-3274 said:

Are there dating sites for this sort of thing? 

 

You're on one

[TheBookCollector]

Get out from behind the keyboard and meet other kinksters at munches and events when they restart, and make contacts.

[TheBookCollector]

Ps just seen you arent in the Uk and the scene over there may be slighly different and munches/events may not have shut down.

[Deleted Member]

This is a dating site, another community site world wide is Fetlife (shhh! I didn’t mention it). That narrows things to local areas a little where Munchs will be advertised. It may seem a little daunting for the first one, but we are a welcoming community so you shouldn’t have any issues 😊

[Wo****]

1 hour ago, Mr_E666 said:

This is a dating site, another community site world wide is Fetlife (shhh! I didn’t mention it). That narrows things to local areas a little where Munchs will be advertised. It may seem a little daunting for the first one, but we are a welcoming community so you shouldn’t have any issues 😊

It's also a kink positive community, not just a dating site.

[ktnaz1969]

I completely hear where you are coming from. I have very little experience but my desire is strong. I have been searching for a Mistress for a long time that doesn’t just want to bleed my bank account or scam me and actually want to form a lasting relationship/bond. I have joined this site to hopefully find like minded people that can assist with my search. I wish you luck in your search and hope for the best.

[ey****]

in terms of dating websites - there are quite a few 

There are a list of them and reviews within this very website - available here : https://www.fetish.com/magazine/kinky-dating-site-reviews/

Generally, I often recommend munches and the kinda community side of things, but it's obviously not the best of times - given even if some were running, attendance is certainly going to be hindered for the foreseeable future.

[Deleted Member]

It's a tough hunt as you are looking for a rare breed. I think local munches are the best route. Most sites I found are scams. Although slave selection has some promise.

[TLFBrat]

Ooooooo meeee

[so****]

ME! RIGHT HERE, MA'AM! 😁

[PandoraUK]

On 4/29/2021 at 7:55 AM, TheBookCollector said:

Ps just seen you arent in the Uk and the scene over there may be slighly different and munches/events may not have shut down.

In the UK, all events have been shut down this whole time...since late March 2020, sadly. 

[Whipit-1064]

I would think right here would be a good place!  If you haven't found one yet, I'm a recent widower myself and available as a sub slave for most BDSM fantasies.  Message me.

[Scarlet-spider]

Hi I'm looking to learn more about being an online sub so feel free to message me about it 

[Deleted Member]

Well, as a divorced guy who's looking to explore a submissive / sissy streak, I'd be keen to hear more xx

[Fran777]

There are plenty out there, contact me if you ar still looking 

[ey****]

I often think there's something sadly misguided when someone asks for advice and randos go "pick me!" 

[Deleted Member]

2 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I often think there's something sadly misguided when someone asks for advice and randos go "pick me!" 

Dignity never goes out of style, heh?

[ey****]

11 minutes ago, BroodyJudy said:

Dignity never goes out of style, heh?

yep - and then it's locations all over the place... and the OP is currently going through an authenticity check
wonder how so many thirsty guys get scammed?

[myshaal56]

i've been looking for a local Dominant Mistress for a long time, but all i get is interest from those who are very distant from me 

[Deleted Member]

At least you are getting a response.... Absolutely nothing in the Midlands apart from people who want you to a thousand pounds worth of 'equipment' from a friend of theirs who has a BDSM shop....

[myshaal56]

Most of the replys that i get are also from Dominant Mistresses seeking *** for equipment or for renting a play space. 

[Deleted Member]

Out of interest how did your partner bring you round to the idea of femdom? Were you willing and happy to help or did you put up a fight?

 

 

[myshaal56]

being naturally submissive and loving the way that female clothing feels, i was very willing and pleased that SHE wanted me dressed thusly.

[myshaal56]

a genetic defect, an extra female chromosome,  has left me in a male shell with female feelings and desires. it has also left me weak and submissive emotionally. therefore i love it when a FEMDOM makes use of me.