Women

[cy****]

I am very dominant, have been since I was very young! I do enjoy being overpowered sexually but it has to be done a certain way and there are many things that I would not want! Even when I allowe a small amount of dominace over me, I am ultimately still in full control and won't hesitate to draw the line and be clear what's accepted and what's not!

[Sc****]

I need to be controlled because I’m in control everywhere else. I make many decisions each day that control people and situations. When I’m having sex it’s “please take me Daddy”. Balances me. Love it!

[Deleted Member]

I can definitely say that the majority of women I know (both friends and work colleagues) are anything but naturally submissive! My ex partner was very strong willed in day to day life, she wouldn't take cr*p off anyone. As my Mistress, she was gentle and very sadistic...

[bl****]

No.

[ca****]

No

[ca****]

Not all

[da****]

Short answer: No. Long answer: We are social creatures, not simply urged on by instinct. The social and cultural contexts we live in fundamentally influence our beliefs, values, attitudes, self concept, worldview etc, which in turn shape behaviour. I would look there for your answer, not in biological determinism.

[Ch****]

I would say most Women would be naturally submissive, if they found a good man to take care of their needs. I seek a Domme, but they are more rare, (true Dommes, not fake Fin Dommes)! Plus, there are 10 or more subs for every Domme. She has the power to pick from many!

[ey****]

3 hours ago, Chastity_slave1962 said:

Plus, there are 10 or more subs for every Domme. She has the power to pick from many!

See, I have this as a common myth

There's been threads on here, and other sites, from single/subless Dominants who might agree they do get a lot of messages - but that very few are even worth replying, let alone of any real interest.  It's not difficult to kinda stand out above most of the subs

Still doesn't bring certainty of a relationship - but then knowing you will be a great sub for someone one day and knowing meeting someone compatible is difficult and needs patience, makes all the difference.

 

[Ae****]

Yes they are - in general - because there's variation. But generally, yes. Society grows from evolution and biology - it doesn't appear from nothing, from a vacuum. What was beneficial and selected for in the past are the traits that were allowed to survive into modern humans and which shaped our likes, dislikes, and tendencies. Example, most girls like a very muscular taller stronger etc man than theyc are. Most men wouldn't like a very muscular, taller stronger woman than they are. Most girls wouldn't be into guys who are smaller, shorter, weaker than they are. Just isn't sexy for them, and it's all caused by our past, our collective heritage as a species.
And it's ok. It's nice to be submissive and is sexy for those who like it. Unless we are thinking that's subs are lesser than doms, which I'm pretty sure we don't.