Do**** Posted July 1, 2021 Posted July 1, 2021 Can an older Dom/Master learn new tricks? After nearly 10 years with the same sub and her eventual (but expected) going out on her own. I find myself both excited and anxious to be going down this road again with a young eager sub. I worry is it possible to be too…for lack of a better term “set in my ways” and am I inflexible now. I wonder if any have had this same issue and if so how they overcame it.
pt**** Posted July 1, 2021 Posted July 1, 2021 New start, new adventures, I’m certain that you will adapt to a new dynamic easier than you think. Best of Luck
Deleted Member Posted July 1, 2021 Posted July 1, 2021 I've always thought as each and every connection can be different, unique, so can the parameters we choose to fit that connection. As such, for me we are flexible and can indeed learn new tricks along the way, if we are willing to look beyond what we already know or expect
ey**** Posted July 1, 2021 Posted July 1, 2021 I feel that. A very important thing is always to keep learning and, the thing is - you might have certain ways that work for you. You don't need to wholesale change those. You do of course need to accept some people will not be compatible with those - but.... someone else will.
Th**** Posted July 2, 2021 Posted July 2, 2021 I think you will be fine Dominantgntlmn9. We all reach these major turns in life where we have to reassess ourselves again. You my friend are the same person who learnt those skills before but now wiser and more experienced. I think with any new girl, younger or not, we taylor our play to their preferences to an extent. It is one of my favourite things as it teaches me so much and ***s me out of those lazy behaviours I may have developed. It is a great time to reassess your needs and wants to, make sure that you are getting what you need and talk deeply with your new partner about what you both would love to try but never have. Make it your own. I am certain that you be just fine as writing that took guts. With those you can do pretty much anything mate. Good luck 😏🤞
ca**** Posted July 3, 2021 Posted July 3, 2021 I feel that. A very important thing is always to keep learning and, the thing is - you might have certain ways that work for you. You don't need to wholesale change those. You do of course need to accept some people will not be compatible with those - but.... someone else will.
Deleted Member Posted July 6, 2021 Posted July 6, 2021 Always open your mind to something new, focus on the positive aspects and you may be wondering why it took so long.
ad**** Posted August 28, 2021 Posted August 28, 2021 My basic philosophy of like is teach something and to learn something everyday, biggest thing is to be honest with yourself.
pi**** Posted September 21, 2021 Posted September 21, 2021 Just be you... nothing worse than failing when you were trying to be someone else..
Le**** Posted October 27, 2021 Posted October 27, 2021 The day we stop learning is the day we stop living! I like to add a 4th L to the typical 3. Live,Love,Laugh,Learn
tr**** Posted October 31, 2021 Posted October 31, 2021 The name of group attracted me lol its fitting in many aspects of my life lol
Ch**** Posted January 8, 2022 Posted January 8, 2022 Kinda the same as always, just go with the flow and find your groove!!
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