Subbing long distance - a most wonderful experience

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A few years back, I was cruising an eastern European dating site and came across a woman who looked just wonderful, just my type.  My brief intro message gained an instant response: 'what type of women do you like?'.  A rather open question so I gave the usual answer - glamorous, adventurous in all things.  How she replied really knocked me off my feet, 'so, if you came to visit, how would you like me to dress at the airport, black or white?'.  Leading for sure so I answered, 'black'.  She was then right into it, asking questions about whether I would submit to her, would I let her bind me and so on.  Well, it was only a month before I had a ticket to Ukraine and met this stunning woman at Borispol Airport.

I had rented an apartment just down the road from where she lived in central Kiev.  Difficult situation for her - separated from but not independent of her ex who was stalking her outside her apartment.  Interesting situation - I spoke no Russian at that stage and she spoke only a few, maybe a dozen, words of English.  We had to use Google Translate a good deal but otherwise depend on natural communication.  Day one, same hour we arrived at the apartment, she had me tied so tightly.  She had roped my wrists and elbows behind but tied me elbows so tight that they were pulled back to the limit of my flexibility.  She introduced me to her favourite gag - cloth in mouth, 5 strips of tape over sealing it in (place from nose to chin and diagonally ear to ear), then bandages wrapping my mouth and eyes.  I knew I was in for a fun week - what she did that first session was magical.  I lost count of the number of orgasms she had at my expence.

It became apparent that she loved role play.  I also found that she liked to play sub too although she had a really low ***/discomfort level.  My rope work was much better than hers and she wanted to learn.  This meant applying the ropes to her but in a totally non ***ful way.  Then she added her interpretation when turning the tables later.  Day 2 she took me to a Kiev sex shop - new crop, weighted nipple clamps, a cock/ball shocker and a pin wheel came home with us.  Within an hour she was dressed in her favourite leather kit (black corset, 6 inch heels, leather gloves, net stockings).  She wore heavy makeup as standard but during these sessions her eyes were very, very heavy with liner and mascara and her lips covered with super thick blue-red lipstick.  I found myself hogtied on the bed, typically heavy/tight gag/blindfold combo.  She proceeded to bite my nipples very hard and very long, making them super sore and sensitive.  The clamps came next and did they hurt? - yes for two reasons.  First my nipples really were ***ful to touch so the clamps alone would have been agony.  However, she removed the rubber guards from the crocodile clips' teeth and these really did add to the *** level like 10 times.  The incredible oral she administered caused a huge conflict in my mind - a genuine mix of *** and pleasure.

Day 3 involved a very long strappado session with weighted clamps and the cock/ball shocker.  As usual, I could neither see nor make much sound so didn't see the crop strike coming.  She had me up on tip toe so little room for wriggle (even had my legs not been tied at 6 places).  She had free reign to aim wherever.  Her delight was my grief as she ramped up the shock level and lifted and dropped the 4 oz weights over and over between croppings.  The strikes were hard enough to be felt but not to leave permanent marks.  The *** level rose simply due to the repetitive nature and overall combination of strikes/shocks and clamps.  After a bout 90 mins of this, she released me and we had straight sex, very passionate sex.

Day 4 saw me in maids outfit, wig and full makeup.  I had to serve her coffee, clean and do other chores.  Classic role play.  Mistress was unhappy with my cleaning in the kitchen, claiming I was lazy and needed to learn a lesson.  That lesson involved having a paste of paprika, tumeric, chilli and curry powders spread round my anus while I struggled in her expertly applied bondage/ gag/blindfold combination.  This was getting rather intense as she also used the clips, shocker and crop concurrently.  My nipples really needed a day off but that was denied.  As always, the sex that accompanied these sessions was wonderful both ways.

Day 5 was a day off.  We visited the WW2 memorial park and museum in the Pechersk district, quite a moving experience.  I learned that Kiev was, like so many places, a great city with loads of History.  The Lavre church complex was equally interesting, a place with incredible religious art  and architecture.

Day 6 was her turn to be sub but it was all very easy bondage.  I used soft scarves and belts to tie her, used a scarf to blindfold and another to cleave gag her very glossy, red lips.  This was her kidnap fantasy, she came home to find an intruder who overpowered her, bound, gagged, blindfold her and use her sexually.  The intensity of her orgasms was astonishing but just like her inability to take anything except play bondage, she could not handle prolonged multiple orgasms as they became ***ful for her.

Day 7 I flew home.

This was an amazing learning experience as well as a really fun week of kinky sex.  I learned so much about how to be sensitive to another simply by watching body language and picking up on verbal intonation, albeit in a different language.  It was clear too that I can play sub but prefer Dom.  Nevertheless, there followed 4 more trips to Kiev over the next 18 months, two in Kiev, one in Ukrainka and one to a town south of Kiev called Oburkov.  Maybe I'll share more of these adventures in later episodes.