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[Mr****]

Seek in g to know and understand more about the different dynamics between dom and sub, particularly in the psychology and the grooming aspects of a relationship.

I realize that, as a naturally dominant person in my relationships, that intentionally applying some behavior patterns and establishing the role a sub has in your life will likely take much more experience than any person with that know-how can communicate to me through the inflated net, but I’m optimistic someone here may be willing to share their insights and am some life applications to practice for the time being.
My goal is to fully comprehend and tactfully Apply various practices of rein***ment towards the ideal relationship I desire to have with my subs. I’m new to the practice and would
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Some help as I discover the deep pool of resources second only to the life experience itself.

Thank you for sharing your perspective!

[Deleted Member]

I think if you are a little more precise you will get some answers. Not quite sure what you're looking for. You've referred to psychology, grooming (?!), behaviour patterns, establishing the role of a sub, rein***ment.

[Cheveyo]

I would suggest you read some articles on the internet. Lots of them. You'll learn the difference between them all.

[sw****]

There is a lot of information on this and other sites and also books you can read. Research is key but like Curvykate has said I’m not sure what advice you’d like.

 

I would also like to add that your use of the word grooming is a tad worrisome. All Ds dynamics/relationships should be safe, sane and consensual. Grooming someone to do as you wish would not be consensual or in the best interest of the submissive.
 

There are lots of experienced people on this site who would be more than willing to advise you on things but it’s your responsibility to ask the right questions and do your research. 

[Mr****]

Sorry, I didn’t mean to say grooming to suggest as if it’s without consent. I just mean behavior and developing Ds dynamics. Are there any simple exercises I can apply that would allow us to establish a highly sexually focused experience where she consistently wants to please me and to receive pleasure from me? Also how can We work through her past sexual trauma which affects her emotional relationship to sex presently ? We are nor yet having sex as I want her to trust I’m not abandoning her but I need intimacy in my life and am struggling to not be frustrated from the lack of it