Deleted Member Posted August 11, 2021 Posted August 11, 2021 Or if you beg to differ, please share! 😉
Deleted Member Posted August 11, 2021 Author Posted August 11, 2021 I think it’s difficult for a couple to find the right 3rd for a lot of reasons tbh. Attraction between all partners, finding someone with the same kinks/fantasies.. not always easy. Not impossible though, keep looking 💙
Deleted Member Posted August 11, 2021 Author Posted August 11, 2021 It’s all in the name. No one is going to jump in headfirst within an established relationship/dynamic it takes time and most are exceptionally choosey and requires a build of friendship with both partners because you have to understand your talking about in interaction between 3 people which is way more difficult to make work than 2 people so ,time and a great deal of patience is required to find a fit
ey**** Posted August 11, 2021 Posted August 11, 2021 like a lot of things. It's easier to find if you're not looking. The often kinda problem a little bit is that - while some people fantasise about serving a couple - when it comes down to it, being attracted to and having a good relationship with both - and - the two in the couple both feeling the same way - is obviously an extra challenge it doesn't help that a lot of people also find unicorn hunters quite creepy - and - going the other way - imagine approaching someone who seemed interested, but they were more interested in your partner, than you
we**** Posted August 11, 2021 Posted August 11, 2021 Agree with all of the above, what we have found is men are constantly DMing and Girls have no interest, they just have so much choice!
Deleted Member Posted August 11, 2021 Author Posted August 11, 2021 Because you are looking for a woman who is interested in both men and women, is kinky and also happy to play second fiddle to your relationship. What's the upside for her? I get approached on this site and others and I cannot think of a situation I am more likely to avoid!
Deleted Member Posted August 11, 2021 Author Posted August 11, 2021 They don’t exist is why, it’s just a fantasy.
Ce**** Posted August 12, 2021 Posted August 12, 2021 If you are looking for a bisexual women to join an established relationship you need to remember to take her feelings and needs into account. What happens if she is only attracted to one of you? Or is attracted to one of you more than the other? What happens if your partner gets super close to the women and you don't? Can the woman play with you both individually or only both of you at the same time? Can she spend non-intimate time with either partner individually or only as a couple? Can either of the established partners end the relationship with her regardless of the feelings of the other two? Can she see other people outside of the couple? As you think about your answers to this, put yourself in her shoes. What do the answers mean for her? Is it a relationship that gives her something? Women typically want to be more than a sex toy for a couple and it is very rare that all three sides of the relationship are equal. Unicorn hunters have such a bad reputation because they don't think about these issues and so the deck is stacked against you before you even ask the question.
Deleted Member Posted August 13, 2021 Author Posted August 13, 2021 Wednesday at 07:57 PM, Curvykate said: Because you are looking for a woman who is interested in both men and women, is kinky and also happy to play second fiddle to your relationship. What's the upside for her? I get approached on this site and others and I cannot think of a situation I am more likely to avoid! Second fiddle? Upside? 🤣🤷🏻♂️ The sex darling. Anyone who joins my partner and I are incredibly lucky. What's in it for them? How about two hot people kissing and pleasing every inch of their body? How about making connections and long lasting friendships...
Deleted Member Posted August 13, 2021 Author Posted August 13, 2021 19 hours ago, Cee-gee said: If you are looking for a bisexual women to join an established relationship you need to remember to take her feelings and needs into account. What happens if she is only attracted to one of you? Or is attracted to one of you more than the other? What happens if your partner gets super close to the women and you don't? Can the woman play with you both individually or only both of you at the same time? Can she spend non-intimate time with either partner individually or only as a couple? Can either of the established partners end the relationship with her regardless of the feelings of the other two? Can she see other people outside of the couple? As you think about your answers to this, put yourself in her shoes. What do the answers mean for her? Is it a relationship that gives her something? Women typically want to be more than a sex toy for a couple and it is very rare that all three sides of the relationship are equal. Unicorn hunters have such a bad reputation because they don't think about these issues and so the deck is stacked against you before you even ask the question. Ok. Maybe I've used the term 'Unicorn' too loosely 😳😬 We're just looking for women to pleasure and be pleasured by. We of course consider her wishes, that's just being a decent human being 🤷🏻♂️
ey**** Posted August 13, 2021 Posted August 13, 2021 So, if you're struggling a bit - your selling point isn't what you think it is. The same problems exist. You need someone who both you and your partner are attracted to. That is the easy part really, you can browse profiles together. But then of course you need someone who is attracted to both of you. That is a little harder. But also, of course, is then happy with the arrangement. And this is something where it's easier to just make friends first. I've no real interest in a unicorn but if it happens, it happens. But, I've done 3-somes with mixed results but what always kinda worked was if it was someone in a friend group anyway - then it become more sex-with-friends
Deleted Member Posted August 13, 2021 Author Posted August 13, 2021 1 hour ago, SexyCoupleSeeks said: Second fiddle? Upside? 🤣🤷🏻♂️ The sex darling. Anyone who joins my partner and I are incredibly lucky. What's in it for them? How about two hot people kissing and pleasing every inch of their body? How about making connections and long lasting friendships... That doesn't sell it for me darling. I am a single kinky woman. I get offered sex with hot people without the hassle that goes with a couple. Pass.
ca**** Posted August 13, 2021 Posted August 13, 2021 Because there is not that many extremely cool down for whatever open females out there. I see it slowly moving towards more unicorns in population. I do believe it is going to take quite a few years before we see an abundant amount of unicorns. We have found 3 in a 7 year span. 
Ce**** Posted August 13, 2021 Posted August 13, 2021 3 hours ago, SexyCoupleSeeks said: Ok. Maybe I've used the term 'Unicorn' too loosely 😳😬 We're just looking for women to pleasure and be pleasured by. We of course consider her wishes, that's just being a decent human being 🤷🏻♂️ So you are "just" looking for a threesome with a HotBiBabe. Just as many mine fields appear there too. Often 1 of a few possible scenarios occur. 1) It is the male of the couple that is pushing it and the women of the couple is just doing it because she feels she must. That equals bad sex, awkwardness, and often resentment. 2) The HBB and the male really hit it off leaving the woman to feel neglected and resentful. 3) THE HBB and the woman really hit it off leaving the man to feel neglected and resentful 4) The HBB and the women feel like they are being directed to do a live porn show for the man leaving both of them feeling resentful. That is way too much hassle and too many likely bad outcomes. As Curvykate said below. Pass. 2 hours ago, Curvykate said: That doesn't sell it for me darling. I am a single kinky woman. I get offered sex with hot people without the hassle that goes with a couple. Pass.
pi**** Posted August 18, 2021 Posted August 18, 2021 If unicorns were easy to find then they wouldn’t be called unicorns. 😜🦄✨
Deleted Member Posted August 28, 2021 Author Posted August 28, 2021 No one wants to feel second best. Period.
su**** Posted August 29, 2021 Posted August 29, 2021 August 13, SexyCoupleSeeks said: Second fiddle? Upside? 🤣🤷🏻♂️ The sex darling. Anyone who joins my partner and I are incredibly lucky. What's in it for them? How about two hot people kissing and pleasing every inch of their body? How about making connections and long lasting friendships... Your response is the exact reason you can’t find one.
Deleted Member Posted September 1, 2021 Author Posted September 1, 2021 Sounds like fun I call dibs on middle😜I believe in equal opportunity
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