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First time trying any of this. My first forum. Um…? What the hell is a Unicorn besides the obvious?
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10 hours ago, port-angeles911 said:

First time trying any of this. My first forum. Um…? What the hell is a Unicorn besides the obvious?

So a Unicorn is a 3rd who is in a relationship with both members of a couple.  There's less equality than any form of poly triad.   It also kinda differs a little bit from just being the third in a threesome (though this is sometimes referred to as a unicorn also)

So a couple who want a regular play partner - it's almost typically that this is a m/f couple seeking another f - so she has to be bi/pan and attracted to both members of the couple AND want to be in a relationship with them that doesn't really come with equal footing - which makes it obviously rare hence the name 'unicorn'

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Gotcha. I really appreciate it. I wasn’t trying to be funny. I really didn’t know. Again. Thanks.
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2 hours ago, Busterhymen said:

Gotcha. I really appreciate it. I wasn’t trying to be funny. I really didn’t know. Again. Thanks.

of course - no problem

 

There's so much other to add in but then also consider - a lot of women who may be open to this have, at some point, being contacted to by a couples profile or the female of a couple and then at virtually the last minute - the female of the couple will be unavailable and the guy will be "Hey, we can still have fun right?" and it be questionable if there was ever a female of the couple (or if she was just wingwomaning to find sex for her partner.) so this then creates a wariness, particularly online.

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Hmm? So Unicorns if found are for the most part bad news?
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40 minutes ago, Busterhymen said:

Hmm? So Unicorns if found are for the most part bad news?

oh hell no.

Unicorns are beautiful wonderful things

It's why they're so sought after.

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Oh, I’m one… If google was correct
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That’s what I am but it’s complicated! idk if you have ever met a sadist that was a unicorn but hi!!
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The reason they are called unicorns is that they are a rare, some might even say a mythical species.

The advice to single females to be very careful if contacted by the female of a couple is good. I am always a bit perplexed when the female sub of a D/s couple is the one seeking a third to make up a FFM threesome.

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Unicorns are hard to find cos they exist from outer space consciousness into our reality,so I must be rare and you can only find me once in a blue moon😻
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Looking for a unicorn myself. I can’t even get anyone to reply to my messages. Lol. We’re a cute couple and we’re fun. Geesh!
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Maybe you should drop your expectations of a unicorn and engage a sex worker. It’s a bit rich assuming someone is going to want to enter into an unequal relationship with what are essentially strangers.
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1 hour ago, fancyfanny219 said:

What is a unicorn?

A bi-sexual female interested in joining an existing couple - usually to be in a relationship with them both. 

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They also need to be open to a poly relationship if that's required, as well as the other factors. It's not easy being one ☺️
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Hehe plus if they weren't so rare they would just be ponies
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I personally think it’s more rare to find a couple that can truly accept and maintain a unicorn !
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I mean… i actually have found quite a few recently. 4 in the last 6 months. I’ll also agree most peoples goal just need to align more. Its easier to find them open to poly and more needing their basic needs met and some caregiver time than c** c** with us and leave in an hour or so. My partner is also better at caregiving for unicorns and strays than I expected being a major bonus.

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*** of sharing for those that know and for the rest, they just can't handle a dick in the ass. Finding a mate is difficult enough. It must be due to statistics. Those f**king statistics.

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They are called unicorns because unicorns are scarce but if you consider the difficulty only one person has finding a mate and then multiply that by two people you begin to understand that though the addition of another person is a linear operation the fitting into an extant situation of a third person increases the odds against you exponentially.
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February 13, SassBunny said:
Maybe you should drop your expectations of a unicorn and engage a sex worker. It’s a bit rich assuming someone is going to want to enter into an unequal relationship with what are essentially strangers.

This right here! Real wisdom hurts a little sometimes!

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