Older women/younger men

[Deleted Member]

Given the number of older women on here I wanted to ask what’s your position on younger men? Does the age gap make it more or less attractive? Any tips for a younger man interested in seducing older?

[Deleted Member]

Obviously that’s relative and there’s going to be lots of different answers. I don’t personally like big age gaps, younger or older.

[no****]

Women are either going to ignore you or notice you. It’s on you to stand out, take comfort and confidence in yourself!

[AllRelaxedMrs]

I’m 49, my favorite sample size is the 26-30 age bracket. Ask me anything? In a swinger , I don’t routinely sample alone, but I’m happy to share my perspective.

[Et****]

Age doesn’t mean anything to me. Your intellect, maturity, and chivalry are what matters to me.

[Du****]

Good manners go a long, long way. They’re always important but a younger man who wants to impress an older woman *must* be polite and respectful. Also bear in mind that older women are extremely busy! We might have kids, jobs, elderly relatives, bosses, coworkers, houses, cars, pets - all demanding our time and attention. If you want to somehow fit into all that, you’ve got to bring more to the table than just a cute face and great abs. But OH MY GOD we’re worth it!! Good luck 😆😘

[Deleted Member]

Older women? First mistake

[Deleted Member]

I usually don't trust young men here. I don't think they have the experience needed. Unless 30 or 35 there's no point to me....

[sp****]

My Dom is 13 years younger than me. He is lovely, and we have a really good connection. However it's not so much about age for me, it's about the mind. Being younger or older means nothing if you don't have anything between the ears. Too many men and this isn't age related start a message with hi or hey. This does not grab my attention. If you can grab my attention with Intellect, wit, compassion with some kink thrown in, then I'm in.

[Al****]

We love that energy you get men bring

[Du****]

Just had this from a 58yo man…
Him: Would love to be sucking on those beautiful toes
Me: That’s really not how to open a conversation and you clearly haven’t read my profile. Have a little decorum, please.
Him: F*ck you
Younger men are much more likely to apologise and try to get it right. Older men often respond like this. It’s quite draining 😔

[Cu****]

I feel a bit weird about younger men, maybe it’s because I have a younger *** and to me they fall more into her age group than mine.

[JO****]

Well….my husband is younger and so are all of my “fun” friends, male or female. For one it’s easier to meet younger people, they go out more

younger than I

[JO****]

I really enjoy someone experiencing things fir the first time

[JO****]

..or watching someone finding and developing thier role. When it’s new or semi new to them I get to experience that rush all over again!! I love meeting the younger generation of our community, it’s grown so much and there is so much more acceptance!! It really is a great time to be freaky!!!!

[mr****]

You will find some are creeped out by more than 10 years, some love it. I have been with women from 18-50+. The women 10 years my senior love having me with them. They always treat me like a man should be, and I give them every ounce of my attention. It is just like when I have a 20 something on my arm. Makes you feel damn good.

[Deleted Member]

I'm 42 and wont go lower than 30

[Deleted Member]

I used to have a rule of not going below 10 years younger than me. While on Reddit I’ve seen how a lot of young Men have huge c**ks. I decided I’m not getting married or having a relationship with them so why not let them f**k me? I don’t play the “mommy” role though.

[mi****]

I’m surrounded by millennials sure would be nice to have people closer to my age.

[Tenant]

Aren't people under the age of 36 (DOB after 1985) a millennial? I understand your meaning though  

Edited September 12, 2021 by MrTenant

[Tenant]

I'd consider myself in that weird area of age (28) where I'm neither considered by the older generation or younger generation as a potential partner. This has been a bit of an issue in the past even dating someone at the age of 23. There's that generational gap where values don't quite align. So I understand that others want to try to stay away from younger folk because they don't seem as 'reliable'. Fact of the matter is though, some are and giving them a chance might me an option. Ofcourse; if you feel you're correct in your initial judgement then pull the distance. My issue if I can't possibly go younger and my generation just lives on Instagram and it's difficult to relate. I'm 'young' but at the top end of my career where I'm spending more time with people twice my age than not and I'm very used to the landscape. It's hard to explain but there's definitely a disconnect between generations and their ethos's and it's really easy to spot when socialising with both age groups. 

[ey****]

5 hours ago, MrTenant said:

Aren't people under the age of 36 (DOB after 1985) a millennial? I understand your meaning though  

Those born between 1981 up to circa 1996

So folk currently between the ages of 25 and 40

Usually the characteristics of millennials is they/we were born during a declining birth rate and during periods of advancing technology.  Some of the older of us have seen so many short-lived tech advances during a short lived time (WAP internet always a favourite) 

[Ra****]

This is interesting

[He****]

I'm 9 years older than my Dom, and we connect on every level. And that's the secret,  whether you connect or not. Age is a number, having said that I would never even entertain the thought of being with someone more than 10 years younger. Its not for me. 

[Fi****]

Honestly as long as we connect on multiple levels, what does the difference in age matter? I’ve had dates with younger men and women… I’m 42 and the youngest I’ve had a date with is 25. I don’t see a problem with it as long as the maturity level is good.