Si**** Posted October 19, 2021 Posted October 19, 2021 Whilst at an event recently, I had the pleasure of watching some amazing rope work being done on a female bunny. After the rigger had finished tying, I approached him to ask if I could take a closer look at his amazing ropework. He very kindly thanked me for the compliment and said he was happy for me to take a closer look. I approached the bunny and asked her if it was ok for me to take a closer look at the rope work as it looked amazing. She smiled and said it was ok. I asked her as I fully understood that she might not be happy with a complete stranger coming close to her and eyeing her up and down without knowing my intentions. So far so good, I think I had done the right thing and shown complete respect to the rigger and the bunny. I had clearly indicated my intention and my focus was only to closely enjoy the ropemanship, eyes only and no touching. My only perving was at the ropework lol. At this point I know that most if not all would agree that I had done ALL the right things. I will now continue. Whilst taking a closer look at the “ropes” a female (I’m presuming was a Domme) approached me and sternly said in an aggressive tone “you don’t do that without asking me first”. Just to be clear, at no point did she appear to have anything to do with the bunny and I had not seen any interaction between any of them the entire time I was watching the rigger doing the tying. The thoughts that went through my head were ‘Really! Wind your neck in’. The words that came out of my mouth was “ok” and I continued to look at the ropes. Her response was “that’s my property”. At this point she lost any hope of respect from me. I was eyeing up the rope and that I know that the rope was the property of the rigger, that the rope tying (lets call it art) was the creation of the rigger and I had politely obtained consent from those that really mattered, she clearly was full of her own self importance and over filling with attitude. I mean, we were at a very busy event and there were loads of people looking at us so as I was doing nothing more than anyone else other than being closer. She stood next to me glaring, and having satisfied my appreciation of the ropes I looked back at her and responded “sorry were you talking to me!” and walked away without granting her time to respond. I wasn’t going to let her ruin my night and she didn’t deserve my time or effort. So for fun, your thoughts and feeling on this and how would you have responded?
charlias Posted October 19, 2021 Posted October 19, 2021 As the doors so rightfully stated: "people are strange".
Deleted Member Posted October 19, 2021 Posted October 19, 2021 How strange, you would have thought she would want to show off her ‘property’ displayed in such a delightful manner.
Ms**** Posted October 19, 2021 Posted October 19, 2021 I think you were correct in your dealings with the scene if the "bunny" thought you needed permission of her Domme she would have said and so would the Rigger. The Domme should have asked the Rigger if she was worried. Stupid woman.
Chastity_Pup_Gabbia Posted October 19, 2021 Posted October 19, 2021 I'm a total newbie at my first event but even I think she over reacted. I think you were polite and didn't deserve to be spoken to like that. But glad you had the higher moral ground and the last laugh and still had a great night.
Du**** Posted October 19, 2021 Posted October 19, 2021 No. She’s not *your* Domme, so you don’t have to ask her permission at all. Indeed, your conduct showed every courtesy required, to the artist and to the model. Maybe the Domme herself lacked experience or mistakenly felt she had something to prove? There - let us be generous and call it that…
Ae**** Posted October 19, 2021 Posted October 19, 2021 Mmm if I'm feeling childish, in my fantasy I would have: Look confused, then smile, then laugh. Then said 'Sorry.' Then big smile and stifle more laughter. Then get a hold of myself and put on genuine, non-sarcastic serious face. Ask her - 'May I look please?' Basically let her know she's being ridiculous but I'll humour her because she needs that kind of treatment and isn't worth arguing with. Yes she was an awful lady, well done for your calm response.
Deleted Member Posted October 19, 2021 Posted October 19, 2021 Did you have a huge smile on your face as you walked away lol. Well done for keeping your cool and didn’t rise to her outburst You handled it really well and as others have said both the rigger or bunny would have said to ask her Domme for permission
Deleted Member Posted October 19, 2021 Posted October 19, 2021 Honestly what you have what’s the best response and wish I would have done that to a few people since they didn’t deserve my time nor my energy on them
Carnelian2 Posted October 19, 2021 Posted October 19, 2021 You are not a mind-reader, I assume, and the bunny was hopefully not wearing a tag "saying property of", so how on Earth would you know? I think you did the right thing - maybe you could have shown the Domme a little respect and retreated after pointing the above out ..
Gidorra Posted October 19, 2021 Posted October 19, 2021 I know I am an ignorant, but just how close do you have to get to look at a rig-job? I mean, I don't have to smash my face through my PC screen to get the idea of any rig-job, but then again, I am basically 5 years old and an ignorant... whaevva...
Leisa Posted October 19, 2021 Posted October 19, 2021 I’ve never known you to be rude to anyone and you weren’t here either. You acted the perfect gentleman
Si**** Posted October 19, 2021 Author Posted October 19, 2021 12 minutes ago, Gidorra said: I know I am an ignorant, but just how close do you have to get to look at a rig-job? I mean, I don't have to smash my face through my PC screen to get the idea of any rig-job, but then again, I am basically 5 years old and an ignorant... whaevva... It was low lighting with dark rope so it was nessasary to get a few feet closer to see how the ropes passed over and under eachother. This required me to step round a barrier to see as at over 6 feet away things were hard to see.. Mainly the post is about the reaction of someone and not my eyesight. lol
Phoenyx Posted October 19, 2021 Posted October 19, 2021 Most likely, I would have glanced back at the rigger, to gauge his reaction.
Sa**** Posted October 19, 2021 Posted October 19, 2021 I think you held yourself well under the circumstances. The way I look at it, the Domme not only embarrassed herself but the rigger. When she let the rigger tie her bunny up she extended her responsibility to them. If they gave the consent to look she should have respected that. If her bunny crossed the line at giving her consent without asking then that is something they need to discuss in private and not take it out on you.
Si**** Posted October 20, 2021 Author Posted October 20, 2021 11 hours ago, Sara-Secrets said: I think you held yourself well under the circumstances. The way I look at it, the Domme not only embarrassed herself but the rigger. When she let the rigger tie her bunny up she extended her responsibility to them. If they gave the consent to look she should have respected that. If her bunny crossed the line at giving her consent without asking then that is something they need to discuss in private and not take it out on you. Thats what I was thinking also. I was too busy having a great night to get into it with the Domme. Perhaps she didnt realise i was a Dom and was trying to top over me. She failed. lol thanks for your comment.
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